"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR nailed the HB9 attention *****....bonus broke NC with my bpd ex

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Been working this one in the background for a while, straight attention ***** buy hot as hell. Legions of orbiters etc.

Anyway I basically just been negging her and ripping on her for a couple of weeks, replying to her messages hours later if at all, real low investment strategy here.

Got asked over for pre drinks, ignored her pretty much the whole pre drinks apart from getting drinks off her (make them give you stuff)

Got to town went off with my boys get followed by her and her girls, told her "go get a round in" (make them buy you stuff)

Easy from there, escalate kino dance away go home and lay leaving her orbiters looking like depressed frogs.

I'm not good at field reports but this one just came down to knowing the nature of that beast and treat as appropriate. I have much better frame control than I used to.

It was interesting watching her orbiters buying her drinks and blowing up her phone and making fools of themselves. That used to be me so I feel for the brothers.

Talking of which for some stupid reason I sent my bpd ex some text about if she's keen for a 3 way and had a bunch of messages from her this morning so every silver lining has a cloud.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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