"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR++:Met at club Day2 EXTREME QUALIFYING WORKS

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So the girl that I # closed from the club on my “FR+: 1st time CLUB. Makeout/#. QUESTIONS” definitely DID NOT FLAKE.

http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?248027,24

If you guys remember from my last post, I’m relatively new (couple months) to being in field, and despite getting about 20-25 #s I was getting few dates. Well I tried a new tactic with this girl called EXTREME QUALIFYING, and now I’m going to use this for ALL the girls that I have time with.

I called her 2 days after, and asked her to come out, but she said she had school the next day and couldn’t. She tells me to call her tomorrow. I say sure, but don’t call her for 2 days (I actually WAS busy)

I get a text last night saying “Thanks for calling back…” HAHAHA is that high interest or what.

I call her today, and said my friends were going out and she should come. She said that sounds good, and I said I’ll call her later. Later I call her 3 TIMES and she doesn’t pick up. (I called pretty much right in a row) 4th time she answers and apologizes that her music was too loud in her car.

I pick her up and go to starbucks and call my friend and his g/f. We were gonna hang out together, but he then tells me that my EX ONEITIS and her BF are with them. (He’s actually going out with the twin sister of my ex…) I’m like whatever, I didn’t want to hang with them but I figured we could just leave in a bit.

Then come over, and It was kind of weird. My ex was giving me IOIs seeing me with another hot girl, and I think her bf sensed it. I have hung with them at the same place before, and usually they are chill, but tonight her bf kept trying to feel her up in front of me the whole time, like he was trying to mark his territory or something. I thought this was hilarious, because I could see her telling him to stop. That was a nice ego boost for me. Stupid oneitis….

So we leave an hour later, and she asks where we’re going. I ask if she’s good at pool and she says no. I make fun of her and just keep driving toward my house. She asks again a little later and I say “Lets rent a movie or something” She tells me “Yea…..I have to work at 745 tomorrow so I can’t really be out that late” (I know its legit because she does it MWF).

Seeing as we don’t have much time I just say we’ll find something at my house. We get there and go in my room in the basement.

Kino was good, as I started it right at the beginning of the date and just continued to touch her DESPITE her not giving ANY reciprocation for the first 20 min or so.

Well we made out about 3 times, each time getting more intense with it. The third time I picked her up and threw her over on the bed so we could be “more comfortable” We made out more and I was sucking her titties, and we had dry sex for a little while.

Then LMR:

Damn man I guess I do need to work this more. 1st she pulled my hand away when I was near her *****, and then when I sat her up to take her shirt off she wouldn’t let me. ( I had already sucked on her titties)

I’ve had this stuff happen before and I can usually get over it by heating her up and cooling her down, and trying again. This time she kept saying that she had to go. I tried “yea you probably should” and kept going but she kept going. Now she honestly DID have to, it was past 2, but I don’t know what to say to the objection of I have to go when she really did. I didn’t want to wreck the day3 by pushing too much.


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-EXTREME QUALIFYING is awesome, check my last post for what I did. I really think that’s why she didn’t flake, besides the fact that I’m RockstarPUA……
-What should I do to get past “I have to go” or other LMR. I’ve used Riker’s 3 rules before and they were awesome, but tonight wasn’t even at that point yet. I didn’t have her clothes off.
-Taking new hot girls in front of ex is FUN. Especially to watch her new bf squirm.
-Girl was actually HOTTER this time than in the club. Awesome. Solid 8.
- Day 2 doesn’t require “game.” Just be yourself, have fun, connect, enjoy each other. I really have never not had some success (such as tonight) on a day2 (except 1 time on a double date with a 16yo very prude…) For me my main sticking point was actually GETTING them onto a day2.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nice work mate....

on average you need to know her for about 6 hours before you sex her..
Work on the comfort between you to reduce the time..

Dont touch her tits or puss when your together, make her beg for it. Go really close to touching her then move away, make it a game to frustrate her.
 

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hey good job man.

so did you tongue kiss her when you were making out one of those three times? lol, j/k.

that sounds pretty good.

i read your linked FR in fastseduction...i'm gonna try that next time i go out, cool deal. :woo:
 

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Stickman - yea i know comfort yea...I've read the theory and know all about it.

I was actually looking for specific techniques for when girls says "I have to go." and really has to go.

h2o - I can't wait to get out to club again. I hope to see more frs from you and less posts on eating out periods.

Oh, and qualifying stuff is awesome. I tried it after looking over mystery method some more, and realizing i was missing it in most sarges.

A1- open
A2- Male to Female attract (attract her, can be as easy as just approaching, or can be hard)
A3- Female to Male attract (QUALIFYING, where you find out why you would like to be with this random girl and she feels you want her for more that her looks.)




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Originally posted by animal crackers
h2o - I can't wait to get out to club again. I hope to see more frs from you and less posts on eating out periods.
oh, yeah, very funny. just hilarious. :rolleyes:

eh, i deserve it though...i know, i'm j/k...don't worry, i'll be clubbing again tonight :woo: i might try some of this stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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