FR: Martinis... Shaken, not stirred

[resilient]

Thought you guys would dig the Bond reference in the topic title anyway... last night was my first night out sarging since taking the Charisma Arts bootcamp (Juggler Method) last weekend. So using my new skills, I set out to game the entire venue with 2-3 PUA friends of mine. Here's how it went down ->

Venue: ****tail party in an Art Musuem in So Cal
Date: Thursday May 11th, 2006
Time: 6-8:30pm
People: 500 persons +/-
Game: External!
B!tchshields: Really low! :woo:

****tail party at an art museum.
Almost a 3:1 girl to guy ratio. It was great. I was there with a few PUAs from the So Cal lair. I was opening up sets left and right and for the first time making sure I get in a good word with the dudes too and not look like I'm just gaming girls. I can really see the power of opening everyone. Once I was in a few sets, girls started to pick up that I was one of the most social guys there or "alpha" because after I demonstrated value, people would re-open me if they saw me in a set when they walked by. There was a DJ, promoters, bar upstairs and below, and an Opera singer who's voice cut through 500 people - wow!

Overall great night and I can really see Juggler Method working for me because I was able to develop longer lasting report with women. The girls were for the most part 6s and below, so it was like shooting fish in a barrel lol. I ran through the method a few times on the ladies, but didn't quite get in a set long enough to ask their relationship situation or #close them. I think I'm picky with these girls, because if they are not SOIng me back then I lose interest fast, because I'm looking for sincere connections and not just BSing, which a lot of women there were doing. Because of my religious upbringing and shy persona, I have a hard time getting into a sexual state with the HBs. :nervous:

HBInteriorDesigner
While my wing talked to his target, I DTO(disarm the obstacle) with fluff talk. I had a really hard time hearing her since she was soft spoken and the DJ music kept getting louder and louder, so I had to keep leaning in to show I couldn't hear(a bad sticking point - I think I need a hearing aide ).... but I related to stories about her moving out here and being different from home. I digged for gold on her emotions but she had a nice shield up. In fact, she ended up ditching me to join one our PUAs on the staircase because she recognized him. The funny thing with her once he tried to kino escalate her, she bounced out quickly.

HBArtInstitute
I ran into a girl who I used to go to school with, she worked in career services and I told her I recognized her. She didn't react well to my kino, but I think that she was just shy. Juggler teaches 1/200 women do not enjoy sex, they are just uncomfortable with you being uncomfortable. If I ran the method correctly, I would have assessed her relationship situation and then #closed her, but I was caught up in genuinely connecting about school.

HBEvita
One highlight was a political science PHD major girl teaching me fashion sense and I DHV a personal story about the upscale HBs who dress to kill at my financial corp. She was 90/10 I never have a girl talk with that ratio, it was a trip. We both had really playful body language too. My SOI: "Yeah, those tall amazon women are tough to be around... I really appreciate your sense of style though, the purse goes well with your dress (kino)" She rewarded me by inviting me to join her birthday party at a restaurant next door after the ****tail party. I went there afterwards with my PUA friends, but she acted really *****y when we were trying to get a table.

Me: Hey! There you are! Where's an open table? All the chairs are taken. You seem to be having a great time.
Her: Yeah... well what can I say? I'm miss popular (turns back into her set)
Me: ??? (re-joins friends)

Crashing the After Party - Restuarant across from museum
We went to an authentic Mexican food when the restaurant stopped serving food. We had the option of bar food which consisted of sandwhichs and salads be we opted for better food. The food was great at the mexican restuarant. Apparently, a friend said that he say Hugh Hefner outside with playboy bunnies.. but I didn't catch them. The restaurant was nearly empty at 10 but two really hot 19 year old blondes came in and sat behind us. They were going on about ex-bfs and all and were kinda loud.I thought about opening them before they got their food but didn't because Mystery says you got 5-10 mins to interact before the set gets the food and gets bored, so I opted myself out since they seemed like old friends catching up on relationships.

I asked a Mystery student to run the cube on me and the set behind us got extremely quiet. When we got up out of our booth we lingered and I noticed the blond girl locking eyes with me and I held my eye contact. Wow was she hot, but from her convo with her girl friend I could tell she was bad news and bitter towards men - at least her ex that is.

Expanding Social Circles
The more sets I open in a night the less I remember. Not sure if this should be a good thing? The cool thing about Juggler Method is it teaches guys to be social. Once I opened so many sets a night, they ended up re-opening me later that night like the friends you introduced me to.

Key factors:
Being social
Had so much talking to everyone
I love that talked-out sarge feeling!
I want to get this warm feeling every time I sarge.

Improve on:
Merging sets
SOIing more
Getting a stronger sexual frame
Relating on feelings not subject

 

[resilient]

BUMP. What no props? I'm an rAFC putting the DJ life to action!

 

[Charm]

I am impressed by your outgoing attitude and persistance. You did very well getting out there and interacting. Rather then sitting here critiquing each of your posted conversations which I'm sure some others will do at some point, I simply wanted to encourage you to keep up this behavior and remember to remain cool, collected and interesting. Remember that the mystery is crucial, no matter how many jokes women might make about you "acting mysterious." Just don't overact either.

As far as the table situation, I will say this. You came off sounding needy for a table, when you really had no actual need to have one. You might have just swung by her table, told her you were having a great time and wanted to swing by and wish her happy birthday. Let her know that you'd like for her to get to know you better but you have to get going, and go for a number-close. Since building rapport would have been difficult with all those people there, a quick and smooth #-close might have been the way to go.

Anyways, great job. Keep this up, find more of these venues with lots of people and continue. If you get really inspired, throw your own venue.