"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Went to the mall today to do some approaches...

First one was on a girl sitting in Starbucks. Went up to her and did a direct approach, talked for a bit... found out she was 24 though and she lost interest when she found out I'm eighteen, though she said it was "sweet" that I approached her. Lol... ejected

Second one was a hot Filipino chick seated by herself reading a book at this coffee table. I dragged out one of the chairs and sat down across from her and said how you doing... then I delivered my direct line. We then immediately starting talking about movies, Dark Knight, watching the movie while high in the IMAX theatre, etc... we were just bantering... she told me she was waiting for a friend and I said "are you sure you're not just here by yourself waiting for sexy guys like myself to come hit on you?" and she started laughing... eventually after 4-5 minutes of conversation I went for the number but I got turned down... she said that she was probably a lot older than me and it turned out she was fvckin thirty years old... even showed me her license... lol...

Third girl was a black chick in Wet Seal. I said how you doing and she smiled but kept walking. Next time I'll say "hey come here."

Fourth was the best one of the day... saw these two hot high school white chicks seated at the food court in a booth. I went up to them and said how you doing... then I said "yall are both real cute so i decided to come over and say hi." They got all giggly and sh1t. I then introduced myself and got their names and I told them they look like high school students and I guessed that they were juniors. I was right and I was like "damn I'm good" to which they laughed. I kept talking about some other sh1t, busted their balls, they had their attention on me the whole time and they were pretty giggly. they started asking me questions like where I went to school, where I'm from, etc. Eventually after 4-5 min of conversation I told them both to give me their numbers... got both :)

Fifth was a disaster, saw a hot blonde chick seated in a couch area near a dude and an older woman. Approached her with a direct approach... she was not receptive.. she also told me that she was with her brother and mom. I said how you doing to them and they looked amused and waved. I left because I didn't sense any interest from the girl and thus saw no reason to stay in that set...

Pretty good day... I need to be careful with Asian chicks because they ALWAYS look so fvcking young. I'm pretty happy with how the day went though... pretty good conversations and got two numbers from the hottest girls that I approached... looks like practicing daygame has paid off... I used to not even be able to approach with opinion openers!

Overall a good day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zaraza

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dude i know waht you mean! i work at a bank and i started flirting with an asian customer. I pulled up her profile.. SHE WAS 30! she looked 20! lol.
 

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Nice job bud.

I always try not to do 2-sets bymyself cause I just find it wierd thinking "should i get 1 number" but it might make the other girl feel bad lol or "should i get both?".But you did and you got both so that kinda inspires me to do that also but Im hesitant for some reason
 

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good stuff. Nice to see someone having success with the day game. Have you ever thought of starting a journal?
 
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thanks for the comments guys. yeah, that was the first time i've successfully done a double number close. I've been practicing daygame pretty much the whole summer so it's paid off. As far as the journal goes, I already have one but it's private. But I'm going to keep on posting all my future field reports in this site... so all you daygame fans keep posted :)

I've also been reading a lot of Magic Bullets/Mystery Method handbooks... so far all of my daygaming has been purely natural. So now it's going to have some structure so expect some mad improvement...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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