"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR/LR: Great Weekend!

Paintballguy

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Wow, let me first start out by saying what an awesome weekend.....

It all started Thursday night when I took my cousin, who just turned 18, out to the club for college night. I mainly focused on coaching him up so he wouldn't look like a jackass in the club. We get there early and have a few drinks to get things started. There wasn't much of a selection of HB's but I go hunt out the good ones. I danced with a few chicks and my cousin got some chicks number. Nothing too exciting happened for me but I wasn't concerned as it was my cousin's night.

Fast forward to Saturday night... One of my friend's calls me up asking if I want to chill with some chicks. I pickup some alcohol and head over with him. We get there and I meet the two chicks. One is cute, probably a HB8, and the other is well not so good. We end up just chilling, drinking, listening to music, etc, and its a pretty fun time. Next, we broke up the game twister which is awesome with girls btw. haha... Somehow, I end up wrestling around with the HB8 and start making out with her. One thing leads to the other and we are having sex.

On Sunday, my best friend calls me up asking to play a round of golf. I tell you golf is so fun when your hammered. His gf ends up calling him telling us to come up to a party at her college. So, we head up there later on that night to her apartment. She introduced me to her roommates and I lock in on the best looking one there. As I start to game this HB, I notice I have an AMOG. As time goes on, I realize he is a huge AFC and is trying way too hard so no competition there. So, I just be my normal outgoing fun self and just make the hb8 laugh and have a good time. Later on in the night when everyone is about to pass out, she grabs me and sais "You can sleep in here"... Then strips to her bra and panties and hops into bed. So, I jump right in and do my thing.

All in all, it was a good time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flabbergasped?

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Haha, two days of drunk sex, sounds like heaven!

Keep up the good work.
 
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