"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR/LR: Back into God mode and a little ruthless

Fash

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Ok,

After making a post about day sarging, I was able to take in some good advice which I decided to field test.

On my way to a friend's drinks at a bar I arrived at my train platform, noticed a cute blonde standing with a small green suitcase. So I just walked over and stood next to her.

Now I was dressed pretty well, white shirt, blue jeans, black shoes, and a dark grey shiny velvet dinner jacket (the rich boy look)

As I stood there I noticed her look over at me a couple of times, and then a chinese tourist went up to her and ask if this was the right platform for a particular station, and she very confidently said yes! But she was wrong!

Me: hey! you just gave that poor guy wrong directions!
HB7: oh my god! did i???
Me: yeh! now he is gonna go the wrong way!

So I waved at the guy and told him to cross over to the opposite platform. This whole time she was smiling and laughing.

Me: You said it so confidently that I even believed you!
HB7: hehehehehehe

So we got on the train, turned out she was going to the same station that I was meeting Ocelot at. I teased her the whole way, and slightly negged her about her "exotic" (NOT!) holiday destination that she was going to.

As we got off, she pointed out that she had some time to kill, and wanted to have a walk around.

Me: oh really? well I'm meeting my friend here, and a little early. Lets go get a drink
HB7: ok!

INSTADATE!!!!!! my first one! woohoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :cheer:

Got to the bar, sat down, then started gaming her, bla bla. Turned out she had a boyfriend. But for me it wasnt about picking her up, it was about my first day sarge and sucessful instadate.

We exchanged emails, had a drink, hug & a kiss on the cheek and she suggested we meet up for a drink next week. Nice girl.

Move onto the bar.

As Ocelot and I got there, I noticed 4 HBs sitting at the table reserved for my friend's party so I instantly walked over.

Me: oh hello! you don't look like my friend!
HBs: oh! sorry, they said we could sit here till your friend turns up. do you want us to go?
Me: yeh! i wanna sit down!
HBs: oh sit with us! we're nice, honestly!
Me: mmmm i'm not sure, let me get my self a drink and I'll think about it.

So we got drinks, i walked over, and sat directly in the middle of them on the couch.


4HBs, HB9= married, HB8= engaged, HB6= a bit old, HB5= filthy looking ho'

So I instantly went in with c + f. negging the married chic hardcore! they couldnt stop laughing! i was on fire and it felt son comfortable.

Started telling them they are sexual predators because the HB9 & HB8 kept looking at my lips as i was talking to them. I went a step further and told them that they keep looking at me and licking their lips as I was "innocently" talking to them.

Now... there werent really, but sure enough, then started doing it!

Started getting mad IOIs off the engaged chick. So I started with playful kino with both of them. I wasnt trying to pick them up, but this was too much fun.

After a while I found my self kissing the engaged chick's neck! :eek: she and her married friend had just spend the past hour talking crap about their relationships with their men, bla bla. I pulled some lines out of the film Don Juan DeMarco about how a woman needs to be touched and how some women go through their whole lives never experiencing it.

Sure enough, they wanted me to demonstrate. So i did, and the engaged chick was getting goosebumps! (good sign)

So I decided that her fiance must be a f*cking loser since they had been engaged for 6 years! and the best thing has ever said to her during sex has been "oh you smell nice!" :box:

Right, seduction started.

I rang the cube on both of them. Then lots more kino. Married chic had to go home, engaged chick decided to stay with me.

Bare in mind that during all this Ocelot was busy sarging the other two.

After she stayed, I slowly escalated. My god! she was determined not to let me kiss her! she said she felt really bad but she was so attracted to me, and hasn't felt "butterflies and those tingly feelings" in such a long time.

Not before long, kiss close! her toungue was firmly down my throat for a good few minutes. She then got quite ashamed and said she had to go. Gave me a hug and another long kiss and went. Oh well, it was quite satisfying.

So I moved on, sarged this other chick, secretary glasses, LONG hair, gorgeous body. Number AND email closed her and called her 33 year old boyfriend an "old man" (she was 22) and told her she should enter my world and see what excitment is really like. A bit of neck kissing, hand holding, etc... danced abit and moved on.

Spotted a HB 6.5 (i was quite drunk by the point) walked over.

Me: Hi :)
HB6.5: Hi, do you know this girl?
Me, looking at a very drunk girl she was helping
Me: na, should I know her???
HB6.5: no! lol
Me: ok, well i gotta go find my friends, but i'll come and find you later on.
HB6.5: yeh, make sure you do

I went in and kissed her cheek, and as i turned my face to kiss the other one, she turned her face and kissed me on the lips!

Me: wo! you were not allowed to do that! these lips are exclusive! you're gonna have to qualify for a kiss.

So I walked away, openned a couple more sets, got bored and went back to her.

HB6.5: oi! I saw you working the room! you look like THE MAN in here. with your smooth jacket, your posture and your smooth talking
Me: me???? :eek: I'm just being me!

So i leaned in, and said "now you can kiss me properly"

Long kiss close. proceeded to a near by dark corner on a couch. Lots more kissing. By this point her c0ck-block friend walked over. Ocelot was quick to disarm.

I invited HB6.5 to come and have some food with us back at Ocelot's place. after a little consideration, she agreed! :up:

Put her ****-block friend in a cab and sent the UG biatch home, got in a cab and went back to Ocelot's place.

In the bedroom within 10 minutes. Took me about 40 minutes of very very slow escalation to undress her. HUGE tits! I mean HUGE! she was pretty slim, and she had somehow managed to hide them really well!

Took me about another hour to escalate to penetration, when I remembered I didnt have a condom!

Ocelot had one, but by the time I got back, she had put her panties back on and LMR had kicked in!

Another hour of freeze outs, escalation, BANG! I was banging the crap out of her.

HB6.5: Now that I have let you f*ck me, you better do a good job!
Me: just lay back and relax ;)

So, F-close, lots of kissing, fell asleep. Next morning, some more slap and tickle (no F-close again, as I had no more condoms).

Had breakfast, number closed, agreed to have a repeat on tuesday and sent her home.

I got a total of 4 hours sleep.

Date tonight. Gotta go get ready.

Cheers,

Fash
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SamePendo

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Hmmm... well, you did your thing allright, but apart from the first pickup, it was all in your territory (aka the bar).

Don't get me wrong, great work.
 

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This is like the 2nd report I've read on this forums, you did good and seemed like you had alot of fun. Its always nice to see other people who never really did cold approaches have success in it.

That hbengaged you could have pulled for sure her. ASD kicked in for sure, after you started kissing her.

The hb6.5 was basically already attracted after all that social proof, the iron was hot and its nice to see you took advantage of it and brought her home.

Good report
 

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Distant Light said:
The hb6.5 was basically already attracted after all that social proof, the iron was hot and its nice to see you took advantage of it and brought her home.
I agree. I'm actually gonna see her again tomorrow night. Don't really fancy taking her out, so gonna suggest bottle of wine and a movie back at hers. :whistle:

We'll see how it goes.
 

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Fash! My man!

I heard that your FRs were AWESOME! I actually never heard of you before then, so I had to see what all the fuss was about.

My gosh! Now I know...haha

I liked how you were in the "I don't care what happens with this set" state. You were just there to have FUN! That is the perfect state. It's not about getting girls. It is about Having FUN and Making YOURSELF happy. Once they pick up on those fun and exciting vibes, then it's GAME ON!

When you're in that state, you could care less whether your set goes well or not. You are willing to walk away because you are not depending on them for pleasure or fun.

You show that you don't need them, because you'll have fun with or without them!

:yes:

AWESOME JOB Fash!

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How in God's name you can be so successful all the time AND NOT HAVE A FRICKIN' CONDOM IN HAND blows me away.

Sorry, envy kicking in. Nice job. You seem to be able to take advantage of situations that could be convo material (e.g. the girl giving the wrong direction, the girls at your reserved table).
 

Fash

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realsmoothie said:
How in God's name you can be so successful all the time AND NOT HAVE A FRICKIN' CONDOM IN HAND blows me away.
You know... I always carry a "man bag" around with me when I go to work. I basically put my book, ipod, wallet, etc.. in there. Keeps my pockets empty and my suit looking sharp and I always have at least 4 condoms in there.

When I have the bag with me, I never pick up a "same night lay". The past 3 times I've picked up a girl and gone home with her, I haven't had a condom on me!

One time, the petrol station I stopped at on the way to hers had even ran out! Here is the FR: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=92679

Now... I'm not a very suspicious person, but I seem to do better when I DON'T have condoms on me. But its not good thoug! :confused:
 
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