"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR: Late night cab drivin'

Just a Shot Away

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Just a disclaimer, this isn't a very juicy FR I would just like some feedback to see how I could have sealed the deal on this one.

So I'm a cab driver, and was finishing up the last calls from the bars and my last one was these two chicks standing on the corner flagging me down. I pick them up and one is a fat (not obese, though) HB 5.5. The other chick is a solid HB 7 with a very decent body. 5.5 mentions something about me being cute, and kino's me for the majority of the 5 minute ride home.

We get to their house, they pay me and when 5.5 gives me a dollar as tip she says "I would put it in your shirt, but that would just be inappropriate." I just say, "Hey, I wouldn't mind" and she proceeds to stuff it in the front of my shirt while feeling up on my chest and whatnot. Both chicks get out and the HB 7 walks around to the driver's side window and I roll it down. She just says "goodnight", and leans in and goes for the kiss close.

We make out while 5.5 just stands there kind of laughing and going "I can't believe this is happening..." When she says that, I take the opportunity to bring her into the mix and invite her in..but she's a bit more sober than her friend and after debating it in her head, decides not to. 5.5 eventually pulls her friend away and goes inside. About 10 minutes later, I get a call from the cab company and it turns out one of them left their cell phone in my car. So I turn around and go back and long story short, manage to get another short makeout sesh with HB 7, but 5.5 needs to go somewhere else so we have to cut it short. When I was dropping her off, she started the kino again but I wasn't really feeling the 1 on 1 with her...I was mainly just trying to invite her in order to set up the threesie. Oh well.

Any suggestions as to how I could have f-closed the HB 7 or wrapped up the threesie? I usually don't get it on with female passengers, so any advice is appreciated. I was planning on getting the chicks to invite me up and at least score a beej but I wasn't sure how to orchestrate it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just a Shot Away

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Nothing? I know there's some naturals around here that would know what to do here...
 

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Did she give you her number then? If she did. . .why don't you just txt her up and tell her when she's out she should always call you up for a ride, because you're a reliable taxi and they know you now...

So she'll call you for a ride when she's out in town, you pick her up, and pick up where you left off.

She'll probably start txting you just whenever if she likes you.
 

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Naw, I didn't give her my number. She wasn't attractive enough for me to put in any long-term effort. :p I just wanted to bang her that night, and since situations like that arise on a semi-regular basis I need to know how to speed close.
 

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Well. . .some people see "seducing girls" as some magical thing. How do you think you'd end up getting a blowj0b or a fvck? Get alone with her (i.e. she invites you into her place), and you get it on with her. . .There's no magical way. If your game is good enough, you can make this happen sometimes, but of course if there's always a friend there, the chance will decrease because of "what her friend will think of her bringing some random taxi driver in"

No magic bullets - just normal "game", but of course with some obstacles to overcome (that's standard)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Also, you're kinda forgetting the fact that oftentimes, the amount you get laid depends on effort. A lot of the time, if you want a shag, you have to put effort in. And that can require you spending a decent amount of time talking to her; going out of your way to go meet up with her; persue her even though you just want it effortlessly.

I really do believe that getting laid has a lot to do with the effort you put in. Cracking onto girls in clubs etc. requires effort because it's a lot easier not to, but if you do want sh1tloads of sex, you have to put effort in (in most cases). In this case, if you had gotten her number, it may've paid off eventually
 
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