"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: Last night - Condom Broke!

diablo

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Well, last night was my manager's going away party. My friend has been seeing this one girl who just started as a shot girl at one of the nicer strip clubs in our city, so we hung out there for a while and watched the girls on stage. After a while, a girl I'd started talking to right after I first read the DJB texts me and wants to know what I'm up to. It turns into my friend bringing me back to my car, and me going to pick her up then us coming back to my house. I should regress... when we were sending txt's back and forth, I sent one like "Hey I'm coming to see you after I leave here". Hers came back "thats okay but no sex, deal?" (We hadn't seen each other for about a month and she wanted time to "get used to being around me" again.) I said deal, and got her.

Back at my house, we ended up just laying on the bed talking - I tipsy, her being sober - and after a while, it gets pretty hot and heavy. I knew that she wasn't going to want sex, so I'd have to make her get to the point where she would go back on what she said and let me in... so we fooled around for about 20 minutes - her shirt coming off in the process, then us grinding for a little... I take out a certain bit (by the way, she had on a very short skirt) and rubbing it along.. then I ask her if she's sure she doesn't want to - she says yes... so we continue doing the same as we've been doing for another 10 minutes.. I slide a finger along, and she's definitely responding well - so I tell her that I don't need sex - and that I'm not going to until she asks me to... She's so worked up by that point that she can't say no, and goes along with my suggestion - literally begging me to **** her. So much for "no sex"...

Well, I put on protection, and off we go. After it's over and done (of course, I came inside her) I pull out and look down to take the thing off. That's when I realize that the head had burst. Either it's because she was too tiny/tight (4'11", 91 lbs") or I was too big (not to brag or anything.. I'm 8"ish, but I think it was probably a combination of the two...)

So, we both sit there stunned. We agree to get the morning after pill - as I'm 21 and she's 17 (legal in Louisiana!) we both aren't anywhere near ready for a kid. I'm having trouble getting to sleep - that sobered me up completely - and finally do nap for about 3 hours before waking up at 9 to go to the doctors. Well, they won't prescribe anything to me if it's not me that's going to take the medication, so I'm screwed. I call a few friends, and one of them has a girlfriend who's had this happen to her (with him) on a few occasions. With his advice, I get the chick and we go to the planned parenthood clinic, where she fills out some paperwork, gives them $75 (which I gave her) and gets the pills. I'd rather pay 75 bucks than have a kid at this point in my life...

So, that's my story. Don't know why I posted it, but it got it off my shoulders for a second at least. Maybe you all can learn something from it... I know I did. She told me to buy Trojan Magnums next time instead of Supra's. :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cactus3178

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Those f*ckers ALWAYS break. I know it's not real practical, but spermicidal jelly works very well in case a condom breaks. Kinda hard to have unless you carry it around in your pocket, lol.

Some condoms are lubed with Nonoxinal-9, and that's pretty effective as well. At least you don't have (likely) anything to worry about. The Morning After Pill is about 95% effective.
 

TurboLover

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Supra's?

LOL that is the kind of car I have. Those jimmy's come Turbocharged?

See you got some no name jimmy. Never had a problem with a trojan breaking (thin) unless the girl is not wet, which is rare for me.
 

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I use the Trojans myself, never had a problem, I don't like other brands....tried and true. :D

Hah, the one time we said 'no sex' that day.......didn't work out.
She pulled my pants down. Jeez, women..... :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ Supra

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Originally posted by TurboLover
Supra's?

LOL that is the kind of car I have. Those jimmy's come Turbocharged?

See you got some no name jimmy. Never had a problem with a trojan breaking (thin) unless the girl is not wet, which is rare for me.
LOL.. i have a supra too.

But atleast you did the smart with with the morning after pill. That girl is tiny ! how in the hell did you penitrate? Either she's loose as hell or she was screaming like crazy.
 

CLOONEY

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Fukc man, this happened to me once also. Man, its a scary thought, I was only 19 at the time.

4'11", 91lbs, WTF? DUDE, that is like the smallest chick I have ever heard of.
 

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Congratulations to you man! :)
It's good to hear you managed it well.
I have gone through these kinds of scare sh´t too. I had intercouse without condom with my ex many times and i never learned until she started to "think" she had the sympthoms but it was nothing at the end... :rolleyes: Now i always make sure to have some durex at hand, or whatever but just keep them. Eventually some will break but it is rare.
Good luck man!! :)
 

Austin Allegro

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Yes it's crap when they break isn't it. I usually pull out just before the final strokes, to check it's still intact (you can do this while changing position) then if it's ok you can just go back in. If you're really worried get those ultra strong condoms, although they do feel like you have a wellington boot on your knob.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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