"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Last day of school.

PRiSM92289

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you may have seen this from another website but I highly doubt it

don't usually do this, because I dont like typing a lot, but what the hell, its a showcase of what Ive learned in the past ~ 6 months of my transformation of AFC -> DJ/PUA

HB 10.0 She modeled for Burberry and does fashion shows, surprisingly down to Earth (but still bubble butt, perfect body, and perfect face with that long model type nose), and unlike my AFC friends in class, who seek validation for her, she always seeks it from me. I figured I might as well # close her if I want a shot over the summer.

Me - *poking her with a pencil*
Her - Hey stopp itt, if you bring that thing any closer, Im gonna break it off
Me - Ha, thats what she said (the office, anyone watch it?)
Her & Room *laughter*

More rapport & c/f I seem to be getting better at it. Maintained eye contact, thats something Ive been conciously working on. Then when the bell rang and she was walking I called her out. Looked her dead in the eye, and said, "contact information. stat" She took out a piece of paper and wrote her name and number. Tremendous ego booster, because she is really that hot and just 3 years ago I was the one staring across at her from my class thinking of how I would bang her. That will very soon become a reality.

***a note on carpe diem (seize the day)***
There is this HB 9.0 in my class that I was chill with the entire school year. I forgot to say bye to her and wont get the chance since she is a senior heading off to college. I saw her after school ended walking down the staircase to the parking lot, I didnt say anything then because I thought I would have missed my bus, but had I said something, I would of defiently gotten a kiss on the cheek or a number, and she was a really cool person also (aside from her looks). So whenever you see a girl or a chance to talk, **** it and go for it, because as it turned out, my bus stayed and extra 5 minutes and I had ample time to make it.
/note

Besides the HB 10, and her, I AIM closed 2 HB 8.0s in my spanish class, I usually chat with them. I got their sn/s after telling some funny stories. Not sure what to do with sn/s, I need some help here, as sn/s arent the same as phone #s, and I generally speaking hate AIM.

Im going to Barnes & Nobles to pick up Maddox's book & Tucker Max's book, Ill see what I can work over there.

Here are some general notes/reccomendations:

* Watch the Thomas Crown Affair, its like a James Bond movie (Pierce Brosnan) without all the unnesscessary action. Pierce acts really alpha in the movie, and I think its a good idea to pick up on his mannerisms (it helped me a little with my conversation with the two HB 8.0s)
* eye contact
* CARPE DIEM MOTHA ****ERS


- PRiSM out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey nice FR bro!

It's nice to see a GOOD THREAD here!

I too agree that AIM convos aren't the best thing there is. However, you can still get her # via AIM. A simple "I don't usually have time to chat online. Why don't you give me your # and we'll chat/hang out some time" would work. Just make sure you transition into an ACTUAL DATE.

Now for the next AFC who is going to ask "Where do you go on a date?", make sure it is an ACTION DATE. You do know what an ACTION DATE is don't you?

Do a search if you still can't think of a fun and active kind of date.

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Hey thanks bro, but I need more ideas on how to transition the AIM s/n into a #/date

I am definetly an action type of guy, I was considering do DDR since all 3 of us have that interest in common, but I need more opinions, I hate that mindless AIM chatter like

person 1: hey
person 2: hey
person 1: how was ur day
person 2: good

btw come on 73 views and 1 reply, whats up with that
 

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^ I pritned that out, after I ented the seduction community for a good amoutn of time I was a "Keyboard DJ" until I realised I was being a little *****
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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