"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SamePendo

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All I've read here is:


Oh! How did she percieve me? I don't want to look this way! I want to please her and appear to be this other way! Will THAT please her? This is the only woman I am currently working on, so I don't want to blow this one up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Haha I was readin this and pretty much the same thing happened to me this week...HB 8...talked to her all throughout speech class...after class as we're leaving i just say "I'd like to give ya a call sometime"...got the number in a non-hesitant mannor...and i was off on my way...should be givin her a call tonite..(since i will prob. see her tomm.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Man If i can give you a word of advice it is not to go fast in the school situation, especially a Commuter college where there is like no social interaction. Just talk to her and build rapport for at least like 2 weeks before asking her to chill.
 
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