"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: Irish Bar - Your thoughts??

gray_fox_9

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Hey guys. My first FR so be gentle and used lots of lube ;)

A couple of buddies invited me downtown to an Irish Bar near the local college campus. I was just having a good time and enjoying some drinks. I was mostly talking to everyone...guys, girls, whoever.

So I spot this cute chick at the bar next to me. She's 5'4" and really petite. Just my type. So she's not even looking at me and I say," Wow, you're really short." She turns around and says," excuse me?" in a real *****y tone. So I said," Well your not the shortest girl I've ever met but you're close." *with a big cheesy smile*.

I wound up talking to this girl for about 2 1/2 hours on Friday night. All through the conversation I kept deducting "cool points" for random things. So naturally she kept trying to qualify herself to win them back. lol...It worked very well. At the end of the night I gave her a ride home. There was a small peck of a kiss when I dropped her off. I called her Saturday and told her we were going to dinner. She obliged. We went to dinner and then went out for drinks after. I pulled her back to my house and we made out and fooled around a bit. No sex though. I think the ASD kicked in. I think she'll come around the next date or two. If not then NEXT!

Overall a pretty good weekend. I felt my game was pretty on the money Friday night. It was probably the easiest pickup I've done in awhile. I didn't have to think much about it. I'm gonna see her again tomorrow so I'll let you know how it goes.

Questions? Thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Overall sounds like a good effort though some would say the dinner wasn't necessary as she hadn't deserved it yet. I would like to know peoples suggestions for alternatives that put him in a good situation to take the girl back to his place...cheers
 

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Thanks for the input...I know dinner and movies are terrible dates but I did take her to dinner on my crotch rocket...so to her it was exciting cuz I went about 130+ with her on back ;)

But yes I would like to hear other peoples ideas on first dates that would lead to the possibility of getting her back to your place....
 

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Dear Gray Fox,
Yes you are playing it soo well,a bird that gets on the Pillion with you is adventurous,she will think you are One Hell of a Guy,believe me I used to ride a bike (Till I came Unstuck)By now she will have made up her mind to let you shag her on your next date,just ride her home,if you don't try she will lose confidence in you.
 

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Your FR sounds all good, keep it light and fun and good things
should happen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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UPDATE: Well she came over Wednesday night last week. Things went very well and we ended up having sex all night. I pulled the whole...."take off your clothes so I can give you a massage line"...she bought it...lol.....

She's only 21 but damn she knows what she is doing in bed....I might keep this one around for awhile.

Thanks for your input guys. I think I can figure it out from here...lol...
 
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