Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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FR: I'm lazy with numbers.

ElStud

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Well this is sort of an FR, sort of a thread about how I'm just lazy with numbers. Today I went up to three sets, so I'll say what I remember. I'm only going to really show one of those sets though, as I can't remember everything.

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So I'm walking on University Campus and I start talking to this girl. I said "Hey" and she said something like "Do you remember me? I'm Jessica" or something like that. Then I didn't remember her that well but she reminded me eventually and then I remembered who the f*ck she was.

So after that, yeah, we just talked and sh*t, although I'm mostly doing the talking and she's responding with stuff like "I see" or "Oh, that's cool". I remember asking about where she was going or something and she says "Well I'm eating but I go to Math in a few minutes" blah blah and after I ask why she wasn't studying she said cause she really didn't have anything to study. Then I say "Haha, so you're a bum like me" and she's like "Yeah".

And basically it was just us talking and interacting. She would basically asked questions and I answered them, sometimes making a statement. For instance out of nowhere I just start talking about Soul Calibur IV blah blah blah and she just listens.

So skipping to the end, she says she's about to leave but I grab her hand and say "Okay, but before you leave since I definitely want to hang with you again, can I have your Facebook?" and she's like "Yeah" or something like that. And so blah blah blah, I take out a pencil and she finds a piece of paper and she writes down her name so I can find her on Facebook.
Like I said I'm lazy with numbers. Could've number closed but didn't feel like going to my address book and doing all of that sh*t. I'd rather just get their Facebook, it's a lot quicker.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I usually keep a pen and few pieces of paper bundled in my pocket.
What I do is, I take a piece of paper, tear it in half, hand her one piece and write my number on the other (the one I am holding). I then give her the pen and she knows what to do. It so smooth.. you don't even have to ask.
 

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Honestly many will disagree here and Ive even posted a question like this on the Mystery Method forums.

I think its fine if you get FB.For me atleast,if I get FB first then i shortly after get number through messages and vice versa.In the end I get both so I think its fine that you got the FB
 

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ElStud said:
Like I said I'm lazy with numbers. Could've number closed but didn't feel like going to my address book and doing all of that sh*t. I'd rather just get their Facebook, it's a lot quicker.
Why? You'll just have to use Facebook to ask her for her number, which would be more work for you. Why don't you just get your cell phone out and put her number in there while the getting is good? It would actually be more time-efficient for you to do it that way, if that's what you're so concerned about. Plus, I know so many guys that use Facebook to try to get with girls. It's un-original, and shows that you have zero balls. Just stick to phone numbers. FB is a waste of time.

Once again, another meaningless excursion by ElStud. Keep them coming. They make me laugh.
 

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619joe said:
Honestly many will disagree here and Ive even posted a question like this on the Mystery Method forums.

I think its fine if you get FB.For me atleast,if I get FB first then i shortly after get number through messages and vice versa.In the end I get both so I think its fine that you got the FB
Yes, it does work sometimes, but its not very reliable and may take some time to actually get a day 2 with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sometimes I find that asking her to hang out over Facebook and using that as an excuse to get her number, works. But lol sometimes I just don't feel like scrolling all the way down to my address book and all that stuff.
 

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Always good for a laugh. I love how whenever he posts a FR he puts average conversational responses and makes them out to be interest.

She responded with stuff like "O that's cool" and "I see". LMFAO

Another pointless FR that only has comedic value.

Too lazy to get numbers yet not lazy enough to ask for a facebook? Translation "mangina".
 

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dude get a cell phone already
 

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TheBaconator said:
Always good for a laugh. I love how whenever he posts a FR he puts average conversational responses and makes them out to be interest.

She responded with stuff like "O that's cool" and "I see". LMFAO

Another pointless FR that only has comedic value.

Too lazy to get numbers yet not lazy enough to ask for a facebook? Translation "mangina".
Sh*t like this is why you're ignored... and...

Your lazy with numbers...who cares?

You still suck with women.
You're ignored for just being a plain loser and hater.

dude get a cell phone already
I have a cellphone, but I still have to click on the options thing, find the address book, scroll all the way down the list of names till I find a [New Entry] and then finally put the stuff in. And I don't have one of those new keyboard phones, so putting in the name is troublesome too.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chicks like to be controled subconsciously even though on the surface they like to pretend they are in control.
so never ask of you can have her number
always say
were gunna hang out!
in a dominating way
if they are in tune with you they will respond beautifully
if they are not
due to preveous scorning they will give you **** from then on
dont waste your fu((ing time if you ever feel its a dead end road
 

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ElStud said:
I have a cellphone, but I still have to click on the options thing, find the address book, scroll all the way down the list of names till I find a [New Entry] and then finally put the stuff in. And I don't have one of those new keyboard phones, so putting in the name is troublesome too.
Do you know that you're lying to yourself, or does that go over your head too?
 

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ElStud said:
You're ignored for just being a plain loser and hater.
Wasn't I ignored 500 threads ago?

Oh your cell phone address book story is complete bullsh1t. Everyone knows that nobody navigates through the menu to add a number to contacts. You dial the number and click menu > save, or options > save, whatever. Cell phone companies arn't stupid, they dont have you dial a number with no save option, especially if you have a modern day phone.

Dial the number, options/menu/whatever, and save the number.

Dont lie to yourself.
 

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ElStud said:
Sh*t like this is why you're ignored... and...


You're ignored for just being a plain loser and hater.


I have a cellphone, but I still have to click on the options thing, find the address book, scroll all the way down the list of names till I find a [New Entry] and then finally put the stuff in. And I don't have one of those new keyboard phones, so putting in the name is troublesome too.

how hard is it to save a number on a phone...? dial number call it
then click the number and save... TADAAAAAAAAAA....

your probably one of the worst posters on this forum
 

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scribblec said:
how hard is it to save a number on a phone...? dial number call it
then click the number and save... TADAAAAAAAAAA....

your probably one of the worst posters on this forum
So true. I'm beginning to think this guy has some sort of mental issues in which he needs to be reassured in all of his actions and needs to feel validated by other guys on sosuave. I think his FRs are BS.

Here's one sketchy thing about this one I just noticed:

So skipping to the end, she says she's about to leave but I grab her hand and say "Okay, but before you leave since I definitely want to hang with you again, can I have your Facebook?" and she's like "Yeah" or something like that

And she's like "Yeah" or something like that? WTF is that supposed to mean? It's either she said yes or no.

And he wants to hang out again? Maybe it's just me, but a 5 minute conversation while walking to class doesn't constitute "hanging out".
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheBaconator said:
So true. I'm beginning to think this guy has some sort of mental issues in which he needs to be reassured in all of his actions and needs to feel validated by other guys on sosuave. I think his FRs are BS.

Here's one sketchy thing about this one I just noticed:

So skipping to the end, she says she's about to leave but I grab her hand and say "Okay, but before you leave since I definitely want to hang with you again, can I have your Facebook?" and she's like "Yeah" or something like that

And she's like "Yeah" or something like that? WTF is that supposed to mean? It's either she said yes or no.

And he wants to hang out again? Maybe it's just me, but a 5 minute conversation while walking to class doesn't constitute "hanging out".

she was probably like get the fuk away from me, which he took as yea or something...



edit :

haha get the **** out. I think SoHaters.com is the site you're looking for.

^^^^^ LOL NICE NEG REP U DA MAN

****ing tool
 

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Congratulations ElStud, you officially have the lowest reputation score among active members on this forum.

LOL!!
 

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So true. I'm beginning to think this guy has some sort of mental issues in which he needs to be reassured in all of his actions and needs to feel validated by other guys on sosuave. I think his FRs are BS.
He is pretty much the only one posting FRs on a regular basis at all. And bad FR beats bad ordinary post in my book.

Anyway, getting the FB is not really lazy. Lazy is what I do - give the girl my phone and make her write the digits herself. As long as you get a contact, don't lose too much time doing it and generate enough interest to make her remember you and respond - the method does not matter.

By the way I don't get why she asked if you remembered her after you greeted her. I mean, does she assume that you "hey" girls you don't know? (of course we know you do, but it's strange for the girl to assume that)

Anyway, not much going for this FR, but thumbs up for posting it and the others! :up:
 
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