“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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FR - I Said Let's Go.

Gunner26

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Hi guys, here's what I got up too the other night with my mates.

Spur of the moment 3 of my housemates and I decide to go out. We pre-drink in roughly an hour just playing drinking games, all of us get through 7 cans or so then get a taxi to the club. We actually arrive a half hour too early and the club isn't even open yet (normally you have to get there fairly early to make sure you get in) so we go to the pub opposite and have a drink. During this time we manage to get another mate to come out and he meets us at the pub, we have a tequila and head to the queue that has started forming outside the club now it is open.

Once we get in the queue a set of 3 girls join behind us (HB6, HB6 and HB8), one of them happens to be a friend of ours (the HB6) so we start talking and chatting. I try and flirt with the other HB6, but she's just not that interested. I hadn't actually noticed how hot the HB8 was at this point but anyway I turn my attention to her because the HB6 wasn't biting. Immediately the HB8 seems interested, hair twirling and kino on her part. I get her name which for the sake of privacy we shall say is Emma. Her name is actually the same as a 'celebrity model' over here so I confirm that they have the same name, Emma says yea, and that normally guys look at her tits as well. Now I hadn't looked at them at this point, and her saying that made me curious, but I held back, instead I brushed it off and said something along the lines of 'Really? I wouldn't know if you're boobs were any good, I was too busy looking at your hair' as I proceeded to take her hair in my hand and twirl it around my finger.

We keep talking, after that she seemed even keener. For the rest of the wait there was some banter between us, which admittedly she dished out better than I did. As we go in I jokingly tell her I was glad that we were getting in because it meant I wouldn't have to talk to her anymore, a breath of disbelief and an accusation that I was lying come from her as well as a playful hit on the arm. I smirk then say 'I'm serious, if I see you in there I'm going to turn around and walk the other way' before flashing her a smile and disappearing inside the club, where my mates were waiting for me.

The night goes on I'm having a good time, dancing with people that I know, turned out there were loads of people out. It gets too about midnight and I've just got a drink from the bar, as I turn to go back to the dancefloor Emma walks past and catches my eye. I bow to her then go to walk away. She comes straight over to me and kisses me. We make-out. After a bit we pull away and she says to me 'I thought you were meant to walk in the other direction when you saw me', I replied simply with 'I lied' then went in for the kiss again (Probably not the best move I could have made)

After some more making out I go back to my mates, she back to hers. Throughout the rest of the night whenever we cross paths we make-out then continue with whatever we are doing. I'm still having a good time dancing with my mates and generally just being merry.

Towards the end of the night I'm getting off with her and say 'Let's go' and go to take her by the hand. At this point she leans in and tells me that we both want different things, and that she just wants to stay and dance. I wasn't sure what to do here to be honest, she'd been giving me green lights all night, then hit me with that as I went to try and take her home. In the end I just said 'cool' and went back to my mates, forgot to even get her number which is annoying. Then 10-20 minutes later my mates and I leave.

On the way home we stop at a kebab shop, I get talking to another girl a HB7, although we are both very drunk we still seem to be getting on and I was flirting like I had only had a couple beers (well haha). I tell her to put her number in my phone as we are off ( our food had come), when her guy friend comes over and tells her it's not a good idea and then leads her away. A shame. I should have put the guy in his place, or said something along the lines of him being right and it wasn't a good idea for her to put her number in my phone, but to do it anyway if she liked a bit of adventure/mystery etc.

Nothing after that, except I woke up hung-over, yet feeling like I had a good night regardless.

Any comments/ critiques are appreciated as always.

Cheers for reading gentlemen.

Gunner
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Sounds like a successful night my man. So you were able to make out with an 8 and almost score with a 7. I'm not quite sure you didn't at least get Emma's number? You said you guys Share a common friend so ask for her number. I think she wants a relationship or just have casual fun. You were looking for sex(not wrong) You may have to work hard on this one but she sounds like she's worth it to get her in bed...
 

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Gunner26 said:
Towards the end of the night I'm getting off with her and say 'Let's go' and go to take her by the hand. At this point she leans in and tells me that we both want different things, and that she just wants to stay and dance. I wasn't sure what to do here to be honest, she'd been giving me green lights all night, then hit me with that as I went to try and take her home. In the end I just said 'cool' and went back to my mates, forgot to even get her number which is annoying. Then 10-20 minutes later my mates and I leave.
What you have to do is, look at her, smirk and stand firm. If she says yes to leaving with you straight away she's going to feel like a slut, so get that first no out of the way. Embrace the first rejection. I always assume it's on and any resistance is just talk. As long as she's still standing there in front of you, it's on. If needs be take her by the hand and start walking if you have to and wait until she asks where you're going.

Just do what you want, don't worry about what she wants because if you lead her, she will follow.

When going for a ONS you will commonly run into resistance at these points:

1. When first trying to get her to leave with you

"Don't worry, we're just going outside to get some food and chat."

She wants to leave with you but wants to stay with her friends. Give her a good enough reason to leave, everyone loves food and she has an excuse to tell her friends which doesn't make her look like a slut.

2. When you're out of the club and going wherever.

Her: I thought we were going to get some food, we've walked past like 3 places already
You: Oh, yeah I have pizza back at mine. *then make out with her*

Depending on how far away you are from the club you have to walk her back to a place to bang her. This could be a while so you'll have to chat crap for however long it takes. She will probably bring up the reason why you left again but reframe and rationalise.


3. At the door to your place

"We'll just have some pizza then call you a cab"

Some more crap for her to tell her friends. Hell I don't even have food but she'll never know that.


4. In your bedroom

"Come and lay next to me for a minute and tell me about *something she was on about earlier*"

I always tell girls that they cannot come into the kitchen or lounge because we'll disturb people so it's straight into my bedroom. I don't have chairs in my room so she has to sit in the bed, I'll sit next to her for a few minutes then lay down and invite her to come next to me.

5. Before you take her clothes off

"We won't have sex, I'm just going to tease you" then start kissing her, then kiss her neck, nibble her ear and rub your hands between her thighs. She will get aroused.

I'm lazy and use the best pick up line ever for this, which is "don't worry, it'll be fine." That always works a treat because you're taking responsibility for everything and if she really doesn't want to do something, she will let you know physically. If she's verbally rejecting you but still standing there, it's crap, ignore it until she's physically recoiling.


At no point do you have to mention sex or even make a move until you're in your bed, I reckon you could do this without kissing her because everyone knows what's about to go down in this situation.

Next time try that :up:
 

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@Nickface - Thanks, I did see it as a good night. I didn't get her number because I forgot to ask her/tell her to give it to me haha, I'll see what I can do further down the line. I don't get the vibe that she wants a relationship, more that she's just up for some fun, which works out better for me.

@Mr Wright - As always solid advice. When I spoke to my house in the morning one of the boys mentioned about going outside for food, it's so simple a thing to do, and I've read about it here as well. Won't be forgetting it again. I appreciate the step by step guide too haha. To be fair I live about a 15/20 minute walk from the club, but normally this time of the year with the crappy weather I just jump in a taxi, costs about £5, then split it between whoever is with me. I also like your suggestion on how to get straight to the bedroom, genius.

Cheers for the replies

Gunner
 
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