"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR I guess...

ThunderMaverick

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Well...I feel icky about it. Whatever.

How do I set this up? Ok A few weeks ago a friend invites me to vegas and he has a few of his other friends at the hotel he's staying at that I've never met before. A couple of girls there. Average looking. The next day me and another good friend of mine spent all day with these two girls and they were fun to hang out with. He tells me he wants to go back to the hotel with this one chick and needs me to keep her other friend occupied. I do this. They go back to the hotel and me and one of the girls has breakfast at the MGM. We have good conversation and that's it.

Fast forward a week later at the saddle ranch on sunset (In L.A.) And this girl is all over me. She starts saying we need to hang out more and yada yada. Whatever.

A week later we're at my friend's house (the one who invited me to vegas) and the girl who's interested in me is there. She brings another friend, suggest we go into the hot tube and we all go. (Except for my guy friend. He turned in early.) So its me, drunk, and two other drunk chicks in a hot tub. Me and the vegas gir are getting close and everything, but don't want to do much since the other girl is there. Vegas girl's friend leaves to look for my guy friend and when she leaves we immediately start making out like rabbits. I'm fingering her, grinding and everything. Her friend comes back and we all go back in to take a shower together. Her friend starts grinding on me in the shower, but feels guilty and leaves. (she has a boyfriend in another state. Boo hoo.)

Me and vegas girl start making out and I finger her again. She shows me her **** ring and says we'll do more tommorow. (Never seen a **** ring in person before)


Oh what's my point?


Gross. GROSS ****ING GROSS!

Of course I was turned on in the begining, the initial move making is always exciting, but what am I trying to get at?

Nevermind the fact that she's proably been with dozens of guys, but it showed when she had absolutely no passion. She was just horny.

I absoultely LOVE to have passion for someone and recieve it back. There's that electricity that surges through your whole body before, during and after making out, sex, etc. That true hunger for a person that stays with you even after you're satisfied.

Ew and she couldn't kiss either. Her lips were too thin and like I said before, NO PASSION. I can't stand it when a girl can't kiss. I've told several a girl to actually stop durning our kiss and would have to coach them through it.

This is kinda dirty but a while back at a party I made out with one chick, coached her and she enjoyed it so much that she told 3 of her other friends about it and they all made out with me...and each other. That was nice. I knew most of them well and I guess that's as far as we all planned to take it.

But the vegas chick wants to do more.

She will not be the second chick I have sex with. Now I'm pickier more that ever.

What's wrong with most of you women?!?!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How you even turn that scenario into a women-bashing conclusion, I'll never understand...
 

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^ That'd be a f uck ring I'm assuming, because ****, anal, rape, butt, just doens't fit with ring.
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I'm amazed...you won't even give her the light of day. She's that bad of a kisser?
 
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I understand you kid -- because I am in sync with the rhythm of truth!!

All women have pvssys but what you are looking for is "NATURAL AFFECTION" - hors don't have natural affection because they are the unnatural order of things!!! Their aggression and spirit is contrived and a ploy - a dead end leading to physical lust and emotional bankruptcy!!!

Welcome to AMERICA!!!!
 

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Brian McGee said:
How you even turn that scenario into a women-bashing conclusion, I'll never understand...

Dr. P just answered your question.

She called me again today to tell me if I told anyone that we fooled around. I only told two of my closest friends about the scenario and trust them with my life so I know they didn't say anything. I ask why and she says that one of her friends said that she was a hor to a mutual friend of theirs. Mutual friend told her. I asked would he say that based on us or her past experiences. She said the former. She also said it didn't bother her if I told him. I just said he's in one of his moods and to brush it off. She says:

"Well if I could take back that night I wouldn't."

Me: "Me too. I wouldn't either" (Lying through my fuc.king teeth as to not hurt her feelings. Which is funny because I absoultely hate lying to people")

Her: "It was really fun"

Me: "Ya"

Her: "We should do it again"

Me: (The sound that came out of my mouth I couldn't repeat it if I tried) "ohhmurgha ...ok")

Sort of a second or so pause over the phone and I said I would call her later.



All women have pvssys but what you are looking for is "NATURAL AFFECTION"

Yup! I'm not just a fuc.k and I will never be just a fuc.k. I will never just be there to satisfy your self serving carnal needs. Get a vibrator. Get a dirty c0ck. I want to earn you. I want to win you. I don't want you as easy as a drive-thru. What's the difference between me and someone else when it comes to crap like that?

She had a c!it ring. That was fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey ThunderMaverick, can you plz clear out your inbox and sentbox? I can't pm you.
 

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off point.. I've lived here in So Cal for about 5 months now.. i've never been to the saddle ranch. am i missing anything?
 
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