"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs & std alert!)

FRëSHURE

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Fosters is apparantly from the same vat as Crown Lager (Australias most popular premium beer) its just that Fosters has the good will (reputation) over seas.

Drinking Lime in Fosters I've never heard of. lol. I understand it in Corona but Fosters? Its a damn bitter beer.

I won't list all the beers I've tasted, theres far too many but I do love getting the small independent types.

eg. Mountain Goat which has 3 or 4 different types of beer.

At clubs in Melbourne its mainly VB/Carlton Draught on tap. I'm on Carlton.

But I tend to buy stubbies (bottles) and I tend to go with either cascade premium/boags premium one or the other is usually offered.

Can't go past Elephant Beer.

If you guys HAVEN'T had Elephant Beer you're missing out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ4Real

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Dang, man. You should be alright though.

Good Luck:cool:

You should be fine.
 

everywomanshero

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Hot chix and drugs

If you go out much and PU, I garuantee you this will happen from time to time. In cities, a lot of hot chix are on drugs. These are the kind the will romp you pretty quick and they often like a guy who is a bit naive, maybe it makes them feel powerful or like the huntress instead of the hunted for once.

Expect this sort of thing to happen once or twice a year. I live in a ghetto, so it happens to me maybe more often than certain other people. I would refrain from accepting the drug offers. As far as condomless sex, the odds of getting a deadly STD from any one given encounter is low, even if she's positive for something.

I suggest getting a Hep B vaccine if you plan to live any sort of sexually active lifestyle such as playing PU. The biggest threats are disease like Herpes which are not terribly difficult to contract.
 

johnmich

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Isnt Herpes something like warts and open sores on your C0ck?
Isnt it also really hard to get rid of?

Or am i just confused and gettin it wrong.
It still sounds nasty tho.
 

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Herpes stays on for life. But you only get the sores a couple of times a year.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Re:

I'm always suspect of women who do ANY drugs, because most of them get drugs for free if they fvck the deal OR did fvck the dealer at one point.

PLUS...if she still has drugs, she's probably not paying (99% of girls don't pay), which means she's got this sketchy-other-dude relationship in her life.

Guys here are already nervous enough about X's and male friends, let's add some napalm to the fire and include drug dealer/junkies to the mix.

If you were a drug dealer (and I'm willing to bet a few guys here deal, I certainly know some, and ran into girls who dealt), would you give shyt away from free, or try to cop at LEAST a BJ??

I think we know the answer...

As far as clinics, it normally takes 3 weeks to get results...but, any HIV testing won't show for another 6, so you'd have to go back, since it takes sometime for the anti-bodies to emerge in the bloodstream giving sign that it's taken shape. If you're that nerve racked go, for your sake, your conscious, and any future girls.



A-Unit
 

Bible_Belt

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Ice and coke are about a million times better of a high through a needle than smoked or snorted. If sticking a needle in yourself makes you uncomfortable, then don't do coke or meth. You are wasting most of the drug. When you see pictures of people who look like death from smoking meth, most of the damage is from the impurities in the meth that would have been separated out when it was mixed with water to shoot.
 

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I used to work with a guy who's "friend" gave him some coke to try a few times. before he new it he was hooked. NOW "THE FRIEND" IS MAKING HIM PAY FOR IT, AND HE HAS NO CHOICE.

I'd say, the chick may have been a dealer her self, and this is haw she hooks the clients on.
 

Egoist

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im regretting my monday night ONS, but damn, at least i had a rubber on and wasn't ****ing a crackwh0re.. well at least not that i know..

makes me feel a little better... i guess..

(but still gotta get regularly tested)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Centaurion

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My **** is still intact, no stds. And the chick is supplying me with various articles.

It all worked out in the end.
 

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What do you mean, the chick is supplying you w/ articles? Guess you didn't learn your lesson the first time if your still seeing her ... man I thought I liked to play w/ fire.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Centaurion

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I can't believe this sh!t has 2000 views.

Anyways, both of us got tested, and we are std negative. I am keeping her around as a party-buddie/FB. She knows alot of the party crowd around here and hooks me up with whatever I need for a very very cheap price. I'm just not riding her bareback anymore.
 

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Re: FR : I ****ed up BIG time (drugs&std alert!)

Originally posted by Centaurion
At his point I remember everything, but my inhibition and common sense was thrown out the window.
This is why I never drink or do drugs.
 

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All I have to say is DAYAAAAAAAAAAMN. Yea now I know what inhibitions are for. I've still been experimenting with nonalcholic/nondrug ways to produce a loss of inhibition for college use, but that **** is scary as heck. I'm glad it turned out aight for you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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