"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR: I did something really really stupid..

Centaurion

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I almost hooked up with my lecturer. :( :(

To take it from the top.

I'm doing summerschool this summer cause I missed out on some required courses last year. And the lecturer for the one course that I'm doing is a HB7 (around 25~ years old) but a 9 when it comes to cuteness. I'm a pretty good slacker, so I've had to speak with her lots after lectures about picking up assignments and stuff like that. Basically, I havnt been to any lectures for the last 3 weeks, and a week ago just out of the blue I got an email from her saying that she hadn't seen me in the lectures for a while and was wondering what I was up to. She gave me her number saying that I should call her up sometime so she could help me if I needed any help. I thought that was kinda weird that she emails me (there's like 70-100 people in that class) and gives me her number. I asked around in my circle of friends (they hadnt been to any lectures for a month) and they hadnt received any emails like that.

But I just let it ago.

Fast forward till tonight. A friend of mine was having a going away party, so we all got pretty hammered. And after a while we decided to head downtown and hit some bars and clubs. At the second bar we went to, as I was walking in, my lecurer was walking out. So I bumped into her, and did some chit chat. I could see that she also was pretty much wasted, she asked me if I had received her email and was wondering why i hadnt called her. I told her that I wasnt that retarded enough to get a tutor. And I just walked into the club to meet up with my friends.

After I'd got a beer, I was talking to some of my mates how I was just gonna go up to some girl and just kiss her (yeah yeah pretty retarded, but it was the alcohol talking..promise! :p) Well, my lecturer had walked in to the bar again and heard me say that, and went like '

- O? How you gonna do that?'

I just leaned forward and kissed her and siad 'like that'. (Heh pretty cheesy when I think of it!!) We ended up making out for the rest of the night. She was basically all over me and wanted some manmeat, but some sensible part of my brain refused beacuase of the whole student/teacher thing.

I just ended up bailing out of that place, and went home and mastrubated. hehe

So now, I'm basically clueless....wtf do I do now? Do you think that the Uni would be strict when it comes to a 'relationship' between a lecturer and a student. Cause, in two weeks I'm done with summerschool, and I probably wont have any of her classes when the semester starts up.... My faithful soldier says go for it, while mr. Brain says it's a big no no...

hmmm anyone been in this situation before?? what would you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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squirrels

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I woulda hit it! LOL

SHE could get fired for it, if she's grading your papers anyway, but that's only if anyone finds out. If you're gonna do something, do it on the D/L.
 

Centaurion

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trust me, there was nothing more that I wanted than that...it would have been some freaky shiat. Maybe I should just keep my mouth shut and boink her on the side. It would suck pretty bad if my gf or my school found out though.
 

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Wait until after she's submitted your final grade. It's a huge risk to her career otherwise.

She wants you. You can both wait.
 

So Many Ways

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After I'd got a beer, I was talking to some of my mates how I was just gonna go up to some girl and just kiss her (yeah yeah pretty retarded, but it was the alcohol talking..promise! :p) Well, my lecturer had walked in to the bar again and heard me say that, and went like '

- O? How you gonna do that?'

I just leaned forward and kissed her and siad 'like that'. (Heh pretty cheesy when I think of it!!)
Priceless!!!

:D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jakethasnake

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Great job ad-libbing like that in the bar.


And the above poster is right - you can wait, it's just two weeks. Get that course over with, keep it friendly with her - hell, maybe even have lunch with her from time to time. Keep it light, joke, and talk about the plans you're going to make once the course is over. And if other classmates ask 'whats up' between the two of you, just say that you were going over assignments.


And once the course is over, you can get down to business and fvck her, and formally start a relationship with her.
 
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