FR: How to deal with bratty immature hot girls, heh.

[Alphathree]

DISCLAIMER A: I don't claim that I handled this 100% perfectly.

DISCLAIMER B: I actually enjoy some of this game playing. It's good practice. I know some of you will say "next" her. Don't worry, I have zero emotional investment.

So I'm out with HB8.5 clubbing. She's grinding me. Then she's like

Her "See that guy over there? I like him"
Me "That's nice."

Then later she pushes my hands away from her special parts where they had been earlier without problem.

Her "It's because I like that other guy."

(Keep in mind she had been all over me for the past few days, and this 'other guy' she just met in the club)

Me "Get off me."

She does. Later, I go to kiss her, and she's like "what are you doing?"

(I've made out with this girl many times before.)

So I get tired of her sh!t tests, go up to her HB6 friend and tell her it was nice meeting her and to have a great night, and walk out.

HB8.5 calls me at 2am and says she's "really sorry." I tell her I don't tolerate her game playing. She denies it. I press on. Eventually she admits it. I tell her she has to absolutely promise not to play games anymore. She'll "try her best"

Then she starts talking to someone else while still on the phone with me. I hang up. She calls back instantanously.

Her "What was that?"
Me "Oh, you didn't like that?"

Then she tries to blame all of this crap on me. I laugh loudly into the phone.

Her "You're such a jerk." <hang up>

Fast forward to today, about three days later:

Her voice message in super-sweet super-innocent girly-girl voice like nothing happened:

"Hey it's HB8.5. Give me a call on my cell phone at <number> Bye!"

I call her. She wants to go out tomorrow night. Pretends like nothing happened.

Me "So it's like nothing happened then? I'm not a jerk anymore"
Her "I don't hold grudges"
Me "Maybe I do"

Anyway she was with her friend, so I made her pinky swear to her friend on her mother's life that she would not play any games. (She's 19. I calibrate my game to use 19-year-old language, lol>)

Then I made her put her friend on the phone and I interrogated her.

Me to friend "Did she really pinky swear on her mother's life?"
Friend "Yup."

So this is settled, I say "Bye" with plans to meet up tomorrow.

 

[Alphathree]

She just sent me this long email about how she manipulates people and she doesn't mean to hurt anyone and she's really sorry, blah blah.

Lesson to be learned for all wussies: put your foot down and it'll pay off.

 

[fender85]

Props on the good handling. However how can you MANIPULATE people and NOT mean to hurt them? Sort of a contradiction . . .

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Oh ok man. You must have not read my women to avoid guide. This girl is bringing drama into your relationship with her. WHy ?? cause she thinks it's normal. I know she really hot to you man but................... MOVE ON! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO you like letting women play mind games on you ?? Is it fun ?? Is it cool ??
If you don't like it then get away from her. She not worth the trouble. I have met girls like this before too.

My guide

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82042&highlight=women+to+avoid