FR-How I Banged My Oneitis

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

thunder_god

Master Don Juan

Aug 16, 2014

Hey I'm just wondering how long it took you to improve and start getting plates? Did it really only take months? I'm not interested in the oneitis part but I really do want to start spinning plates. I haven't had much luck getting any dates and only got a few numbers. I want to start dating girls who are hotter then my oneitis who I will term "oneitis destroyers" but so far I haven't even been able to score a date with a HB6. I need to date HB7.5 and up to help get over my oneitis. I now see an abundance of attractive women from doing cold approaches on the street, festivals, bars, clubs but I always get blown off.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.