There's a difference between being confident and being ****y.Espi said:
Confidence is the deep, inner stuff you can't turn off. It's always there, always on. ****iness is just an outwrd behavior you can use at will.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Confidence is the deep, inner stuff you can't turn off. It's always there, always on. ****iness is just an outwrd behavior you can use at will."Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Krassu, you are the f*cking man, man. If you're talking about James Allen i assume you mean As a Man Thinketh?
This is exactly what frigging confidence is! Simple faith in yourself. this is the thing all you "afc's" are looking for. I respect the PUA's for teaching the stuff that obviously works for them but it works better for them coz they KNOW they are the real deal. Most people studying their teachings will inevitably end up emulating their teachers.
A true leader is not a man with the most followers but the man who creates the most leaders. If you are emulating you are merely a follower and not your own leader. Hope that makes sense.
A confident person is not afraid to fail and does not depend on the coulds, woulds and shoulds. He does, he has and he will. When I do something I think "Why shouldn't I be confident!?!? If I fail i am gunna fail aren't I?" If you're afraid of failure you are afraid of 50% of your life coz thats it. 50% failure 50% success. If you don't fail, if you don't make mistakes you simply DO NOT LEARN. Krassus, I wish i lived near Toronto coz I would be honoured to be your wing and vice versa dude. You have your philosophy down to a T. Much respect bro!
Pardon my rant lol
This is exactly what frigging confidence is! Simple faith in yourself. this is the thing all you "afc's" are looking for. I respect the PUA's for teaching the stuff that obviously works for them but it works better for them coz they KNOW they are the real deal. Most people studying their teachings will inevitably end up emulating their teachers.
A true leader is not a man with the most followers but the man who creates the most leaders. If you are emulating you are merely a follower and not your own leader. Hope that makes sense.
A confident person is not afraid to fail and does not depend on the coulds, woulds and shoulds. He does, he has and he will. When I do something I think "Why shouldn't I be confident!?!? If I fail i am gunna fail aren't I?" If you're afraid of failure you are afraid of 50% of your life coz thats it. 50% failure 50% success. If you don't fail, if you don't make mistakes you simply DO NOT LEARN. Krassus, I wish i lived near Toronto coz I would be honoured to be your wing and vice versa dude. You have your philosophy down to a T. Much respect bro!
Pardon my rant lol