"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

FR: Hostess from work

Mission

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2006
Messages
267
Reaction score
12
So I have the pleasure of working at a restaurant, I am a bartender at the restaurant and so I immiediatly have social proof amongst everyone working there. It is truly amazing. Anyways, I am 18, and most of the other tenders and servers are mid 20's, so I make a habit of getting to know the hostess's really well.

Last night there was a hostess working, lets call her HBcurly. She is probably around an 8 -> 8.5 for those of you who use such a scale. Anyways I always give the hostess's a hard time for taking the wine taster glasses from the bar (which they use to give to people waiting for tables). So when she came in I started busting on her, I had already met her once before so it was just continuing the flirty behavior from last time. Carrying on, when I finally got cut, I went to chat with her.

Mission: hey hows things out here?
Hbcurly: good, i want to get out of here so bad!
Mission: this probably isn't the best time to tell you I am cut then...
Hbcurly: You bastard! *hits my arm
Mission: sorry babe, what are you doing tomorow night?
Hbcurly: not a damn clue, how bout you?
Mission: friends having a party, you should come.
Hbcurly: yeah! you have your phone on you?
Mission: yeah, whats your number?
Hbcurly: xxx-xxxx
Mission: and your last name?
Hbcurly: ____
Mission: ok i will give you a shout tomorow then. bye!

This morning I texted her. "hey its Mission. I am bored and hungry, wanna come get some grub with me"

Sure enough she texts me back saying yes.

It is as easy as that guys. Hope this helps some of you.

--Mission
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top