"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Homecoming.

ElStud

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Repost from the DJ Forum since no one replied to that one.

So last night, I had my first and last homecoming, could've been better, but it was fun. I met up with my friend and his cousin there and I decided I was going to dance after my friend started dancing. Skipping ahead my friend sees this Tina girl with a group of friends and ask her to dance and eventually I just see this dude grinding the hell out of her. He's definitely got a lot better with chicks since that one track meet. Eventually I started grinding with some chicks and it was crazy. Most of the girls I was grinding eventually got off, I assume it was because they couldn't take me. But then I asked this white girl who was with her friends if she wanted to dance and she was like sure. So I start grinding with this girl and she stays on me for a long time, she only gets off when her friends say "She needs to go to the bathroom". Before that happened, there was this funny thing where I asked a girl to dance and she said yes. But then as soon as I start grinding her, her friend comes in and ****blocks me saying "She has to go" and I immediately say "****block!". Majority of chicks said no when I asked, but the ones who did say yes were fun.

You know that Amanda? She's a freak on the dance floor man. I thought she was just a sweet and innocent band girl, but then I see her grinding the hell out of her guy friend. Yeah, that was interesting. And man, grinding chicks is a lot of work man, hah, it made me realize how out of shape I was. Like I'd literally be grinding a chick and I would go get a drink whenever she got off. By the end though, there were NO girls to dance with. All the girls were either dancing with their friends, grinding with someone or talking. At the end I was just basically walking around there looking for someone to grind with. But dude, I'm glad I didn't bring a date. I also should of gamed some more chicks, rather than just dancing. But hey, for my first and last homecoming it was good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I did that last year, and I plan on doing it again. It's less restricting without a date, which equals fun.
 
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