"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: HB9 pick up @ the RoCk!!

Ken785

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Ok So we went to this club in SF on Saturday, me and 2 of my cousins. It was looking pretty weak when we were standing on line because all the HBs outside were like 6s and 7s...so we said that if we got inside and it wasn't that great we'd move on to the block party down @ this other club.

We get inside and chill for a bit, then i spot this 3 hbs and i immediately approach. I asked them for directions to the other club and they tell me that they are from Sacramento, they immediately start talking to me.

I start saying if this club isnt going too hot i want to move to another club and that the HB9 should give me her number just in case we go that they can go too...my other cousin approaches us and they start talking to the HB9s friends HB6 and HB7.

Anyways we left that set and later met up with them again on the dance floor, I was talking to HB9 until one of my cousins came over and "popped my collar" implying that i was a pimp or something, i don't like that...i think it sends i mixed message to the girl. (I gotta tell him to quit doing that!)

Anyways...long story short i ended up dancing with HB9 and by the end of the night around 1:35am i must have blacked out and drunk called HB9, according to the call record i called her @ 1:35, she texts me back a minute later saying

HB9: "u must b bored"

Ken785:
No

Then i call her again apparently and according to the call record on my phone i was on the phone with her for over a minute saying god knows what. Then i call her a third time and that call only lasted 2 seconds...the thing is i was blacked out for that part because i remember the whole night...just not that part.

Anyways..end of the night i try to find my other cousin who apparently closed on her HB7 friend...made out with her a few times and he gave her his number and they are now talking...she seems very interested in him.

But now, as of yesterday i called HB9 but got voicemail, she i texted her..

Ken785: 8:25PM "What up HB9! Its Ken from last nite :p it was nice meeting u...sorry i must have drunk called you accidentally last nite... In case u were wondering who that was, yep it was me...hope u and ur friends got back 2 sac safe. Tty later k? - Ken"

HB9: 9:32PM Hey dude-sorry-ive been workin-we r fine tanks!

Ken785: 9:42PM Yeah im glad i didnt leave..ended up having a good time! I think ur friend HB7 and My cousin are taking a liking to each other. :p free 2 talk for a bit?

HB9: 12:37AM "Sorry im still at work-resturants- n e ways yea nice meetin ya too!"

...and that was the last i heared from her last night...notice the time..what resturant is still open @ 12:37am?? Unless of course she works @ a dennys. Anyway...i know i made a few big mistakes...

First with my cousin going over to pop my collar while im talking to her send off the sign that im a player, second i shouldnt have even called her, apprently talking for a whole minute i cant even imagine how that conversation went!...third hearing from her in her text obviously theres low IOIs there since she isnt giving any invitation of further communications...

She just says "Hey dude" and "Nice meetin ya"....i think her friend HB7 and my cousin are really into each other and i have a feeling ill meet this girl again in the future...but im wondering if i can raise her interest somehow...hopefully shes not a lost cause......:eek:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry to break it to you but "yea was nice meetin ya" means "You missed your chance that night, should have taken me out of the club with you and plowed me the first chance you got, i've already been plowed eight times since Sunday, nice meetin ya"
 

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BeyondCharm said:
Sorry to break it to you but "yea was nice meetin ya" means "You missed your chance that night, should have taken me out of the club with you and plowed me the first chance you got, i've already been plowed eight times since Sunday, nice meetin ya"
correction: she said "nice meetin ya too!"
 
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