Yo, yo, yo!
Went out on a date with hb-9. She looks like a Russian model.
Anyway she is the epitome of a nerdy/shy girl. Works two jobs and never goes out.
Shes also really insecure it seems.
Took her on a date (she was super dolled up, looking hot) and tried to dance with her but she was bashful. (her toe is fractured so she was hesitant to dance, and apologized) I kissed her on the cheek as we danced. Lots of kino the entire time, great eye contact, and asking me lots of questions. Conversation was easy with her.
Anyway were sitting down in a booth type area, and talking and I saw her making glances at my lips every so often. I went in for the kiss, and she stopped me and said sorry. She feels bad etc, etc. She just got out of a LTR, wants to go slow. She looked like she was about to burst into tears.
She kept apologizing and tells me that she feels awkward now, I told her to not worry about it and we kept talking. I still kept kinoing and had my arms around her sometimes and called her a dork and other things.
I did a lot of cold reading type dialogue with her, just showing my perspective. Like, 'I could be full of ****, who knows, but I see that you have limiting beliefs, you say you are awkward, but who's saying that other than you? Who cares what people think'.
I even had her do cold reads on me. It's like she was bragging for me.
Me : I'm pretty shy too.
HB : No, I'd say that you are confident, and smart, you will do well in anything.
etc.
I was very clear in my intentions, and I think I have a shot at getting with her. I just never dealt with this type of girl, she apologizes for being awkward, shy and what not.
I honestly feel like the 'kiss rejection' wasn't even a rejection.
I'm happy I had the balls to step to a HB9.
How do you all think I should play this?
Went out on a date with hb-9. She looks like a Russian model.
Anyway she is the epitome of a nerdy/shy girl. Works two jobs and never goes out.
Shes also really insecure it seems.
Took her on a date (she was super dolled up, looking hot) and tried to dance with her but she was bashful. (her toe is fractured so she was hesitant to dance, and apologized) I kissed her on the cheek as we danced. Lots of kino the entire time, great eye contact, and asking me lots of questions. Conversation was easy with her.
Anyway were sitting down in a booth type area, and talking and I saw her making glances at my lips every so often. I went in for the kiss, and she stopped me and said sorry. She feels bad etc, etc. She just got out of a LTR, wants to go slow. She looked like she was about to burst into tears.
She kept apologizing and tells me that she feels awkward now, I told her to not worry about it and we kept talking. I still kept kinoing and had my arms around her sometimes and called her a dork and other things.
I did a lot of cold reading type dialogue with her, just showing my perspective. Like, 'I could be full of ****, who knows, but I see that you have limiting beliefs, you say you are awkward, but who's saying that other than you? Who cares what people think'.
I even had her do cold reads on me. It's like she was bragging for me.
Me : I'm pretty shy too.
HB : No, I'd say that you are confident, and smart, you will do well in anything.
etc.
I was very clear in my intentions, and I think I have a shot at getting with her. I just never dealt with this type of girl, she apologizes for being awkward, shy and what not.
I honestly feel like the 'kiss rejection' wasn't even a rejection.
I'm happy I had the balls to step to a HB9.
How do you all think I should play this?
