"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

FR: HB sexy walk

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
So today i was at school standing outside one of my classes waiting for the teacher to come when this girl walked by and caught my attentnion. She walked by and there was something about her that made me wanna talk to her. She went and sat down in front of her class. My teacher came and i went in my class, set down my ****, and went to talk to her. I think i kinda startled her. She seemed kind of suprised and intrigued. I talk to her about what class she had, her major, how long shes lived here. She asked me some questions to ( IOI je jea!). I felt there was enough rapport so i went for the number. Then she asked for my number so she would know whos calling...(IOI?) I was a little nervous, im sure my voice sounded shaky and my fingers were shaking when i put in her number. Oh well, **** is a breeze.Her walk was like whoa!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

SparkleMotion

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2004
Messages
187
Reaction score
1
Age
72
Very nice.

Depending on how you handled it, her asking for your number was either an IOI or a pre-flake. But from the way it sounds, I'ld go with the IOI.
 

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Originally posted by dementia
"So i can see whos calling" kinda sounded weird.

If it was me i wouldnt call her. Id sit by her in class.

She sits alone?? and just ask her out face to face. That way she cant flake on you as easily, and if she is flaking you can read her body language better with her lack of EC and making up dumb excuses etc.

Youre more likely to get ya first date doing it this way IMO.
I kinda agree, but you know how some people are, they never answer if they dont know the number. I dont have class with her but she seemed pretty interested.
 

PRMoon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2003
Messages
3,739
Reaction score
41
Age
45
Location
-777-Vegas-777-
Originally posted by oakraiderz2
I kinda agree, but you know how some people are, they never answer if they dont know the number. I dont have class with her but she seemed pretty interested.
I actually screen my calls when I don't recognize the number. My cell has a call screeen option, comes in handy when a shifty broad i'm trying to avoid calls from someboy elses phone in an attempt to trick me.

Silly ho's, never try to trick a trickster.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
for a guy that's been here since 2002, we would have knocked you on the head if you didn't go up and talk to her...:D


awsome job (now if I could only do the same:( )
 

Q-Pid

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 11, 2005
Messages
526
Reaction score
3
Originally posted by spider_007
awsome job (now if I could only do the same:( )
You can. One foot in front of the other. Look into eyes. Open Mouth. :D
 

xblitz44x

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2002
Messages
1,606
Reaction score
13
Age
46
Good job. Do it enough times and it'll start to register that there is nothing to be 'shakey' about. It is just conversation.
As far this goes:

"Then she asked for my number so she would know whos calling...(IOI?)"

Don't even read into it. It could go either way. It could be that she wants to see who is calling so she knows to answer. Or it could be that she wants to see who is calling so she can avoid it. Either way, it's not your place to figure it out. You did your job of initiating the conversation and letting her know you'd like to talk more with her. She can take it or leave it. Call her and post an update.

Blitz
 

BrotherAP

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2005
Messages
722
Reaction score
5
Age
45
Location
Earth
"Then she asked for my number so she would know whos calling...(IOI?)"

Good, now she wont have an excuse for not knowing.

I stopped just taking numbers a while ago, opting instead to trade for this very reason - so I know she knows who I am when she picks up the phone.

I'm still experimenting with this, but so far results seem good, with one girl answering seductively "Why Hello, BrotherAP"



BrotherAP :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

ScrewIt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2004
Messages
1,769
Reaction score
2
Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Then she asked for my number so she would know whos calling...(IOI?)
GJ!

Usually it is IOI. After giving you her # and she asks for yours that means she does have high IL.

It's a form of insurance, if you dont call her (or miswrote her# ), then she will be able to call you.

Same thing happened to me with this girl, she ended up txting me a couple days later.
 

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
Originally posted by BrotherAP
"Then she asked for my number so she would know whos calling...(IOI?)"

Good, now she wont have an excuse for not knowing.

I stopped just taking numbers a while ago, opting instead to trade for this very reason - so I know she knows who I am when she picks up the phone.

I'm still experimenting with this, but so far results seem good, with one girl answering seductively "Why Hello, BrotherAP"



BrotherAP :D
I fully concur. Going with an exchange seems like a better idea.
 
Top