"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pathgen

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So i went to this halloween party and i was having fun. I stayed away from the dance floor because i was a bieng a bit of a *****. I instead played beer pong and flip cup. Then later on in the night i see this decent looking girl flipping through the music on an ipod alone on the dance floor. She sets it to some classical music and i jump in and pretend to dance with her ( i dont know how to dance). We have fun for a few minutes and then i just said **** it (in my head) and went for the kiss. She let me do it once but then afterwards she pulled away and we had this conversation.

Her: Your drunk
Me: Im not that drunk im just drunk *big smile*
Her: well how drunk are you?
Me: Not drunk enough to not know what i am doing, but drunk enough to have fun
Her: I dont even know your name
Me: Its path, yours
Her: Im <insert name here>
Me: haha ok were good then?
Her: i dont know anything about you
Me: Ask ill tell you
Her: Ok are you a virgin
Me: No
Her: ok then (a tone that sounded like a deal breaker in her voice)

After this she doesnt seem disinterested but i was getting a better vibe then before. We were still dancing so i told her i had only been with one other (the truth).

I had fun, im guessing she did. Just thought id post this up because I feel like i messed up somewhere and i want to learn from my mistakes. Thanks guys =D

Edit: Oh somewhere in their she told me i was really handsome and i responded you are pretty also. I knew it was sorta afc but hell i gave it a shot i didnt have a response to that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pathgen said:
So i went to this halloween party and i was having fun. I stayed away from the dance floor because i was a bieng a bit of a *****. I instead played beer pong and flip cup. Then later on in the night i see this decent looking girl flipping through the music on an ipod alone on the dance floor. She sets it to some classical music and i jump in and pretend to dance with her ( i dont know how to dance). We have fun for a few minutes and then i just said **** it (in my head) and went for the kiss. She let me do it once but then afterwards she pulled away and we had this conversation.

Her: Your drunk
Me: Im not that drunk im just drunk *big smile*
Her: well how drunk are you?
Me: Not drunk enough to not know what i am doing, but drunk enough to have fun
Her: I dont even know your name
Me: Its path, yours
Her: Im <insert name here>
Me: haha ok were good then?
Her: i dont know anything about you
Me: Ask ill tell you
Her: Ok are you a virgin
Me: No
Her: ok then (a tone that sounded like a deal breaker in her voice)

After this she doesnt seem disinterested but i was getting a better vibe then before. We were still dancing so i told her i had only been with one other (the truth).

I had fun, im guessing she did. Just thought id post this up because I feel like i messed up somewhere and i want to learn from my mistakes. Thanks guys =D

Edit: Oh somewhere in their she told me i was really handsome and i responded you are pretty also. I knew it was sorta afc but hell i gave it a shot i didnt have a response to that.
Interactions like these are usually pointless, you're at a party, you've been drinking and you're not really spitting decent game, don't over-analyse these interactions too much.
 

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Interactions like these are usually pointless, you're at a party, you've been drinking and you're not really spitting decent game, don't over-analyse these interactions too much.
Now that im sober that makes sense lol.
 

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Lust said:
Interactions like these are usually pointless, you're at a party, you've been drinking and you're not really spitting decent game, don't over-analyse these interactions too much.

I can relate....

heck, it happened to me last night
 

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When im at a party, I try not to get drunk. I feel that I can spit intense game when im buzzed, but not past that.

Also, gaming on drunk girls is cakeeeeeeeeeee.. You basically just have to have the balls to approach and escalate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pathgen

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Now that it is after the fact i was thinking that what i should have done is taken her somewhere to talk while still being playfull. Like when she said she didn't know me i should have said "lets go somewhere to talk then."

There was a back porch that had nobody on it and it was pretty misty and crazy looking outside here in San Francisco. Thats just my thought though.

I would have made it more challenging for her to extract information from you...instead of saying, "Ask and I'll tell," you could have said something like, " OK, you get one question; then you have to go home with me."
Would you really have said that? That seems way to bold for me id really have to try really hard to keep my composure and pull off a line like that...

Haha i found out she was sober btw >.<. I was the only one drunk apparently she doesn't drink
 

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so you meet a stranger and tell her how many past partners you've had in the first5-10 minutes?????

jeeez thats game for you........

still, GOOD effort on approaching and hitting the kiss.
 

Pathgen

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so you meet a stranger and tell her how many past partners you've had in the first5-10 minutes?????

jeeez thats game for you........

still, GOOD effort on approaching and hitting the kiss.
Dude your totally right i shouldn't have discussed how many i have had it would have been better if i sad thats personal. I didn't even think of that im adding it to my game thanks
 
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