FR: Group of girls at lunch.

[HandyAndy]

maybe your perception of ioi's and flirting is just off... but im actually going to try and give you a piece of advise for once.

if i were you i would try and find one girl that you can actually get interest out of and get a girlfriend. you need to get really comfortable around girls, because you are obviously doing something wrong. stop trying to pickup chicks and get into a relationship that you can count on for a little bit and once you figure out how to keep it going you will be much better off in all aspects of life dealing with the other sex. from my understanding you dont have many female "friends" that you can just talk to. you need girls that you can talk to, weather it just be a friend or a girlfriend, to learn how to communicate without the pressure of pickup... you are too worried about technique while you need a good base to start with.

i hope you can take some of that advise.

All he does is approach all day, i dont think he has any friends. Elstud are there days that you actually hang out with people? Or do you just try to talk to girls all day. You need to stop revolving your life around girls, they are just an accessory to your real life. Do you have any goals?

 

[ElStud]

maybe your perception of ioi's and flirting is just off... but im actually going to try and give you a piece of advise for once.

if i were you i would try and find one girl that you can actually get interest out of and get a girlfriend. you need to get really comfortable around girls, because you are obviously doing something wrong. stop trying to pickup chicks and get into a relationship that you can count on for a little bit and once you figure out how to keep it going you will be much better off in all aspects of life dealing with the other sex. from my understanding you dont have many female "friends" that you can just talk to. you need girls that you can talk to, weather it just be a friend or a girlfriend, to learn how to communicate without the pressure of pickup... you are too worried about technique while you need a good base to start with.

i hope you can take some of that advise.

I can open most sets of girls and I can approach confidently, so I think there's obviously nothing wrong with that. Your understanding is in essence "bullsh*t". I have tons of female friends to talk to. And do you honestly think in my small school that all the approaches I do are "cold"? No. But really, if you don't know someone don't make assumptions.

 

[Arizona iced tea]

****in A, im just trying to help you for once... i suppose i'll just go back to making fun of you. but then again you are flawless so thats a lost cause

 

[ElStud]

ok first of all, i have seen this site for a long time..and finally made an account just because this guy is so out of touch with reality. its weird elstud..its almost like you wear goggles that make you see the world so out of focus. you see everything in terms of sets, who opens who on conversation.."IOI's" all kinds of things that are just terms...if someone says hi to you, thats all it is. you might be surprised to hear this but some people are just nice or talkative or friendly. your real problem is you read things all wrong. you think there are some sort of concrete rules to life, like if you do A,B and C...you will succeed. the truth is different things work for different people. the weird thing is, you must be realllly creepy or something. the reason i say this, is because most guys will say even if a girl is not interested, usually she won't just say "i have to go" or "go away" or all the awkward moments you share with us when ur "HB" tells you to get lost or asks you to stop talking to her. you must be extremely uncomfortable to be around..now i know i sound like im just ripping you..and i am..but you are so stubborn yet nothing you do is working. i think everyone here would agree that its time for you to post a pic so we can see what we are dealing with.

also...one time..i saw this guy who looked like jesus, oh wait i have a better story..i saw this guy who looked like Prince, but i thought it would be rude not to say hi...i swear all the girls laugh so hard at my good stories!!!! my game is tight.. HA

Blah, blah.. blah and... blah. You should make a livin' out of talking out of your ass. But lol I like you already dude, you made an account just to post some BS about me. I don't even know where that "I have to go" BS came from and even if a girl did say that I wouldn't really care, I'd just move on to the next set.When you've actually had a convo with me or atleast read most of my FR's then you can talk about how "creepy" I am. All I know is I can go up to girls confidently, open sets and get them interested in me. Hell some girls are even starting to open up convos with me like yesterday this Lauren girl who I was friends with randomly started calling my name saying "Mike" and then when she caught up with me she was like "what's up" and we had a convo. They might not be attracted, but they are definitely interested in what I have to say, which is... interest.

 

[HandyAndy]

Blah, blah.. blah and... blah. You should make a livin' out of talking out of your ass. But lol I like you already dude, you made an account just to post some BS about me. When you've actually had a convo with me or atleast read most of my FR's then you can talk about how "creepy" I am. All I know is I can go up to girls confidently, open sets and get them interested in me. Hell some girls are even starting to open up convos with me. They might not be attracted, but they are definitely interested in what I have to say, which is... interest.

Guys, STOP TRYING TO HELP HIM. JUST STOP!!! He wont take any advice from us, and obviously he thinks he knows everything, which is why he is still an insecure chump. Leave him alone, his FRs are only good for laughing at.

 

[ElStud]

Says the guy who gives advice on how to get woman all the time, but is scared to approach them. Thing with most of you guys is, most of you just overall have the wrong mindset. Basically game aint all about words. Then there's the fact that most all of you cats giving advice feel the need to pull sh*t assumptions out of your ass when you don't know me. Then there's the fact that most you guys have less than 100 posts. But basically, most of you just have the wrong mindset and probably don't get consistantly laid. But really, it's amazing you guys care so much about me not agreeing with your way of things. Amazing how much it really does affect your life that I disagree with you.

 

[HandyAndy]

Says the guy who gives advice on how to get woman all the time, but is scared to approach them. Thing with most of you guys is, most of you just overall have the wrong mindset. Basically game aint all about words. Then there's the fact that most all of you cats giving advice feel the need to pull sh*t assumptions out of your ass when you don't know me. Then there's the fact that most you guys have less than 100 posts. But basically, most of you just have the wrong mindset and probably don't get consistantly laid. But really, it's amazing you guys care so much about me not agreeing with your way of things. Amazing how much it really does affect your life that I disagree with you.

Wow....your so ****ing stupid. You talk about us not getting consistantly laid but you cant even pull off a number. I swear I feel like knocking you out, get a damn life you chump.

 

[ElStud]

Wow....your so ****ing stupid. You talk about us not getting consistantly laid but you cant even pull off a number. I swear I feel like knocking you out, get a damn life you chump.

Haha, this is so stupid. It's so funny that you're geting so mad over this. Oh yeah if you actually read over most of my FR's, which you didn't, you'd know I've 2 successful number closes already.

And what's the point of a pic? I already know I'm attractive to woman. I did get opened by 2 girls by the way, one which I didn't even know. Also, on Friday at dance rehearsal for the play, I was rubbing chest and then I see this Freshman girl stare at me with this smile on her face. And I could've sworn that the dance instructor(Who is young and okay looking. Probably in her mid to late 20's) was kind of flirting with me too when she touched my arm. Play practice in general rocks, because there's only like 8 guys and like 4 times as many girls. So I get to talk to girls a lot.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

hey guys . Why the hell are you un motivating him ?

ElStud keep approaching . Thats the best way to learn this game .

I think he's good at opening but not that good at building attraction .

Mystery Method would work for you .

 

[ElStud]

hey guys . Why the hell are you un motivating him ?

ElStud keep approaching . Thats the best way to learn this game .

I think he's good at opening but not that good at building attraction .

Mystery Method would work for you .

Yeah, I agree with this pretty much. I basically think my problem is that I can get them interested, just not interested enough to give a number. But I have been able to get chicks actually attracted sometimes though. But really I don't really sweat it if a girl doesn't give me her number because there could be tons of reasons. Maybe her BT just aint high enough, maybe she has a boyfriend, maybe because her friends are around she doesn't give the number because of ASD. At the end of the day, it aint really worth it analyzing why ONE girl didn't give you the number. A girl could reject the number one day and then give you it the next time you open her. Really, a girl could reject a number because she was interested, but not interested enough to give you the number.

Certain girls don't even have to be that interested to give you the number. For instance, one day I opened this foriegn South American chick who just moved here a few weeks ago and I basically told her she had a nice accent and did some rapport with her. Then I said "Well, could you give me your number?" or something and she's just like "Okay". She wasn't what ANY of you guys would call attracted, but she gave me the number. Unfortunately I forgot to save the number in my phone, but oh well what can I say? It was my first successful number close and I made a rookie mistake.

 

[HandyAndy]

Haha, this is so stupid. It's so funny that you're geting so mad over this. Oh yeah if you actually read over most of my FR's, which you didn't, you'd know I've 2 successful number closes already.

And what's the point of a pic? I already know I'm attractive to woman. I did get opened by 2 girls by the way, one which I didn't even know. Also, on Friday at dance rehearsal for the play, I was rubbing chest and then I see this Freshman girl stare at me with this smile on her face. And I could've sworn that the dance instructor(Who is young and okay looking. Probably in her mid to late 20's) was kind of flirting with me too when she touched my arm. Play practice in general rocks, because there's only like 8 guys and like 4 times as many girls. So I get to talk to girls a lot.

...ohh watch out master player over here with a whopping 2 numbers! what are you gonna do with those 2 numbers, call them and get rejected so you can cry about it?

 

[ElStud]

Haha, you guys are funny. Seriously and I'm saying you to help you guys, log off SoSuave and DO SOMETHING ELSE. Go play a video game, go f*ck one of your many girls, go ride your bike. But I can tell being on SoSuave arguing with people all the time aint helping you guys a bit. SoSuave clearly isn't healthy for you guys.

 

[HandyAndy]

Haha, you guys are funny. Seriously and I'm saying you to help you guys, log off SoSuave and DO SOMETHING ELSE. Go play a video game, go f*ck one of your many girls, go ride your bike. But I can tell being on SoSuave arguing with people all the time aint helping you guys a bit.

LMAO, you seem to contradict yourself in every one of your posts. What do you do all day? Post on a forum and talk to girls so you can get rejected? And if you dont get rejected you say they showed "interest" yet they declined giving you their number. Get a life bro, find a hobby and stop revolving your life around girls. You seem to get into arguments in all your threads because of your stupid mindset and how you think you know more than all of us.

 

[ElStud]

LMAO, you seem to contradict yourself in every one of your posts. What do you do all day? Post on a forum and talk to girls so you can get rejected? And if you dont get rejected you say they showed "interest" yet they declined giving you their number. Get a life bro, find a hobby and stop revolving your life around girls. You seem to get into arguments in all your threads because of your stupid mindset and how you think you know more than all of us.

Haha, so now you magicly know my life good job bro. Seriously though dude, logoff SoSuave and get out of the house a little, this board clearly isn't healthy for you and you arguing with me, is only showing that you have bigger problems than girls to worry about. It's showing your personality problems. The fact you get easily offended, the fact that you care too much about what's going on on a web board, and the fact you take things too seriously. Also you only make yourself look dumber when you talk about people you know nothing about.

 

[HandyAndy]

Haha, so now you magicly know my life good job bro. Seriously though dude, logoff SoSuave and get out of the house a little, this board clearly isn't healthy for you and you arguing with me, is only showing that you have bigger problems than girls to worry about. It's showing your personality problems. The fact you get easily offended, the fact that you care too much about what's going on on a web board, and the fact you take things too seriously. Also you only make yourself look dumber when you talk about people you know nothing about.

I dont "worry" about girls. I have other things to worry about. I dont revolve my life around women like you do.

 

[ElStud]

I dont "worry" about girls. I have other things to worry about. I dont revolve my life around women like you do.

Yep, cause you know everything about me right? Hah, you can fool yourself into thinking that if you want(Especially since I've mentioned several times in this topic that I'm doing the play and I've mentioned in several FR's that I do band and track. But you wouldn't know, because you don't read them all). Anyway, Mike mans out, this thread has gotten too dumb for me. Some advice for you though HandyAndy, lighten up man.

 

[HandyAndy]

Elstud heres an example of what you should strive to be
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139791

 

[Technical1]

What you apparently don't realize (?) is that if even a handful of the other posters lowered their standards for FRs to the point where they were posting every single casual social interaction with a woman, as you are doing, SoSuave would be flooded with threads and as a forum would either be ruined, or the server would literally crash, or both.

It boggles my mind to think you can't realize that people are not publishing every detail of their interactions with women. What sick fetish do you have for Field Reports that you have to publish every single social interaction?
When you finally get in an LTR, are you going to be on here every day posting Lay Reports?

Banged my girlfriend today. Again. She was watching Grey's Anatomy while I did it. She was giving me high IOIs, definitely interested.

 

[ElStud]

I know I said the other post was my last in this topic, but this one probably will be. Basically all you guys who've been hating have now been ignored. If you got nothing useful to say and you only want to bring negative emotions into the topic, I'll just have to ignore you. So congrats, technical, I'm_a_king, you're on my ignore list now. Don't worry HandyAndy, you were already on that list. We don't need haters on this board and haters like you guys contribute nothing to the board, but arguing and corruption.

 

[HandyAndy]

I know I said the other post was my last in this topic, but this one probably will be. Basically all you guys who've been hating have now been ignored. If you got nothing useful to say and you only want to bring negative emotions into the topic, I'll just have to ignore you. So congrats, technical, I'm_a_king, you're on my ignore list now. Don't worry HandyAndy, you were already on that list. We don't need haters on this board and haters like you guys contribute nothing to the board, but arguing and corruption.

Oh my god! You ignored me! How will I ever sleep tonight!?!? Get a life, chump.

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