FR: Got the number! Now what?

[ElStud]

Alright, so I was up at my college campus and I saw this cute black girl. Eventually I went up to her and said "Hi" and she says hi back. In a fun state, I ask what she's listening to and she says "Pink" or something. I told her I knew about Pink; but told her that I prefer classic rock and she's cool with that.

Next, I remember asking her for a high five and she rejects it. But I didn't care and I just plowed through it. It was probably a sh*t test or something. Anyway, the rest of the convo is fluff talk, she tells me she does nursing and I said "BABE! You have no idea how often I hear that! I wish someone would say sociology or physchology or something".

Anyway, after all the fluff talk I confidently said "Well, give me your number and we can hang out" and put the phone right in front. The instant that happens she just puts it in and I'm like "Do you know how to do it?" and she's like "Yes". For once, I didn't get the "boyfriend" excuse.

After that, there was a bit more fluff talk and I told her I had to get back to class(A time restraint). When I left said "It was nice meeting you, maybe I'll call you or something".

But now I got the number and what do I do with it? Do I just call her and have more convo? Or should I suggest that we meet up on campus or something for coffee?

 

[rocket87]

Now, you go out and open 9 more very attractive women before sunset.

Then come back here, tell us about your awesome stories with all these gorgeous women you conversed with; and then we help you f-close a few of them, gogogogo

Btw, why did you attempt to high five her?

And did you display any value, or were you just another fellow student talking to this girl cause you wanted to give her your d!ck for breakfast? Any built up attraction? Just wondering.

 

[ElStud]

Now, you go out and open 9 more very attractive women before sunset.

Then come back here, tell us about your awesome stories with all these gorgeous women you conversed with; and then we help you f-close a few of them, gogogogo

Btw, why did you attempt to high five her?

And did you display any value, or were you just another fellow student talking to this girl cause you wanted to give her your d!ck for breakfast? Any built up attraction? Just wondering.

Well realisticly that won't be happening today; but I'll do that whenever I go out again.

And what is value? I just go up there having fun. It was a quite natural approach really; I wasn't even thinking about approaching until I saw her.

 

[rocket87]

but I'll do that whenever I go out again.

Great. Open as much as you can. Every interaction makes you that much better. :woo:

And what is value?

Girls only fvck guys that are of an equal or higher value, or "status," than themselves. Why else would they bother associating with a guy that just wants to feed them some d!ck?

You have to find things you already identify with which make you a valuable man. You could be friends with a bunch of celebrities. You could be a multi-millionaire. You could have a crazy interesting hobby that you know everything about. You could be a person who's confidence shines through in any situation. You could have your pilot's license and enjoy flying on the weekends as a side interest. You could have ridiculously sharp public speaking skills. You could drive a cool car and know everything about it. You could have many attractive female friends. You could have been on an epic backpacking tour in Europe and have mad stories to tell about it.

Whatever they are, identify things that make you valuable, and learn to naturally convey these things to women.

(If you don't have things that define you as valuable, it's time to get started.)

Natural means you are genuinely displaying value in a subtle manner. Add this into your natural approach and you'll see more success.

 

[ElStud]

Great. Open as much as you can. Every interaction makes you that much better. :woo:




Girls only fvck guys that are of an equal or higher value, or "status," than themselves. Why else would they bother associating with a guy that just wants to feed them some d!ck?

You have to find things you already identify with which make you a valuable man. You could be friends with a bunch of celebrities. You could be a multi-millionaire. You could have a crazy interesting hobby that you know everything about. You could be a person who's confidence shines through in any situation. You could have your pilot's license and enjoy flying on the weekends as a side interest. You could have ridiculously sharp public speaking skills. You could drive a cool car and know everything about it. You could have many attractive female friends. You could have been on an epic backpacking tour in Europe and have mad stories to tell about it.

Whatever they are, identify things that make you valuable, and learn to naturally convey these things to women.

(If you don't have things that define you as valuable, it's time to get started.)

Natural means you are genuinely displaying value in a subtle manner. Add this into your natural approach and you'll see more success.

In that case, I guess I do have some sort of value. I do go up there extremely confident with no anxiety at all. I just don't see that as value though; I see that as having fun with her and being myself.

 

[rocket87]

I do go up there extremely confident with no anxiety at all.

That is kinda value. But it's also kinda expected for you to be a confident person. When I'm referring to value, I'm speaking more of... sh!t you do or ways you act or things you associate with that make you "cool."

What makes you special?

http://www.howtoseduction.com/building-attraction/demonstration-of-higher-value-dhv/ <- first article I found on google, might help you understand the concept a little better?

 

[neghitzbrah]

Traveling is always a great subject to talk about. I like the hiking/backpacking idea. Nice post, Rocket87

 

[r0cky]

make the best out of that number, give it to a man.

 

[hisstory]

Text or call.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Cool, an ElStud thread.

So...how'd it go?