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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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FR: Got the number...now im not sure...

Ken785

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ok so im walking through the parking lot at school after class... i cant find my car....so im wondering around the parking lot for awhile and this girl thats waiting for a parking spot looks at me and i ask her if she could help me find my car and i could give her my spot. so now were driving through the lot looking for my car and i chat her up...talking about school and asking if shes new here,etc... so we find my car and then i say thanks and ask her for her name...but i just say thanks and see ya around...i didnt number close that time...i almost slapped myself on the way home....

so a few days later im walking the the same parking lot looking for my car again and people are asking me if i need a ride to my car...i say no, and that i wasnt leaving....then i see this girls car again...i walk up andsay hey and if she could take me to my car again...anyways, the guy that asked me before was behind her and said "hey, whats up man??" getting mad cuz im giving her my spot...i said "sorry man, i know her." and i get in....anyways were chatting it up again...then this time i ask if she wants to hangout sometime...she quickly says sure and i ask for her number and she calls me with it but it ends up to be a private number...

i say, "hey, it says its private..." she says "oh...i usually block my number cuz i dont want people to know it, but i have your number, ill call you" now im thinking she wont, so now im thinking whatever...and say "ill talk to you later then..." and wave bye as i leave. then later she texts me saying "hi ken. well im n class but wana text u so u have my number. just before i forget. bye!"

so now im thinking everythings cool. then later i see my phone has 2 missed Private calls. for some reason i think its her.... so later i call her and said "hey was that you that called me cuz i got 2 missed calls and its private, cuz i dont get many private calls and i remember your number was private so i thought it was you" shes like no...and says some stuff i forgot and then says well, shell call me later...she never called. so i wait like 3 days and text er and ask whats shes doin...never got a reply...then i call her 2 days after that...went to voicemail and her box was full...that was yesterday....

im kinda confused now...you think she really didnt want to give me her number?? she must have had at least some interest in me cuz she didnt have to text me her number if she didnt want to...

should i call again and when?? advice bros....i really want to play my cards right with this one but her call contacting me back is kinda like me losing my cards....
 

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stalluproar

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No more calls.

In fact, I would have stopped her as soon as you saw the private number and got her real number. If she wouldn't give it, then tell her to delete yours out of her phone. You have to demonstrate you can walk away and not act like it is OK for her to be misleading.
 

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but she says she usually blocks her number though....but unblocked it so she can give me hers..
 

stalluproar

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Originally posted by Ken785
but she says she usually blocks her number though....but unblocked it so she can give me hers..
You said she texed you with her number later.

Also I would have told her I won't answer blocked calls so be sure to unblock your number.
 

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Something seems kinda iffy about this girl.

Personally I do not trust her. If I were you I'd completely cut off contact. If she's being this shady over a simple phone number then she is not worth your time.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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don't get too hung up on it. I mean if she wants you to call her..she would've answered or cleaned out the mailbox at the very least! Ditch her and keep doin what you're doin and maybe she'll call you. Don't lose your car again so you won't have to see her and she won't have to drive you to your car again. Cut off contact till she contacts you!
 
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