"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: Got Older, previously married, russian immigrants email address

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I went to work out at a different gym late at night a couple weeks ago. This Russian girl, with a very very nice body and pretty face, was giving me IOIs. So I approached with an opinion opener. She immediatly was into it, and within 30 seconds she suggested that we go outside in the pool area and talk because it was too noisy inside. So we go outside and talk.

It turns out that she came to America awhile ago (probably 3-7 years ago). When she came to America, she got married. She said that she had no choice because she needed someone to be dependent on. Later she divorced him because he didn't allow her to pursue her own life. One thing she wanted to pursue was acting. And now she is going to acting school and working retail. I told her that I'm just a university student.

I got her email address.

Any suggestions how to go about this?

She is probably anywhere from 4-9 years older than me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Le Parisien

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Lol, she probably got married for one single reason: THE GREEN CARD or even better, the AMERICAN CITIZENSHIP.:D

Now she can fly on her own so she dumped her husband who was probably old ugly and desperate anyway...

It's pretty common among good-looking women from certain countries...:rolleyes:

She's a user, so it's a NO NO. I'm not saying that she's necessarily trying to use you, I'm just saying that her personality must be very crappy. Understand "selfish", "manipulative" and "ruthless" when it comes to making decisions that might hurt others.
 

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Run Screaming into the night!

This is not a chick who you want to become emotionally
attached to. She will use you .

The Russian marriage bride is all a scam. They want to get
into the country and almost all of them dump the guys they've married. I've known at least a half a dozen of these creepy *****es.

Don't listen to her lies.


**** her if you can, and kick this ***** to the curb.
 

Don_Marko

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heeeey... all these opinions passed about a woman of which you only know one part of information about.

If you were a girl and marrying some dude was the only way to get a better life for yourself would you do it?

The woman who can go trough with it is very strong , and why would she spend the rest of her life paying the guy for favour of bringing her to US?

Fck bro... treat her like a normal chick, if you like her great if you don't move on.
 

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She's obviously ambitious and drivin, I like that quality in a woman ;)

I think it'd be best to show her how ambitious and drivin you are, also not to talk to her three times a day but let her know that you are busy and have your own life too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have been mainly worried about STDs and pregnency. What do you guys think?
 
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