"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I end up playing in my dads soccer game in sort of like a hungarian area like a get together with food and stuff.I get there 45 min till my game and see 3 girls.I didnt approach them right away since I was SURE they would be there all day even watching my game (which worked out well in the end.

While practising,I end up taking off my shirt since it was ridiculously hot.Why I really did it though?To show off haha I know some of you will probably think "what a tool haha" but it helped i think.While game was going on, the girls were saying stuff like

"GOOO NUMBER 9"....."NUMBER 9 MY FRIEND THINKS YOUR HOT CUTE"...etc.

I ended up being number 9 of coarse and I was just smilin but still trying to concentrate on the game.I see the girls after and its two younger lgs and 1 HB8.I of coarse only wanted to talk with the HB8 but the two other ones are the ones I only could have talked to first.While talking to them,the hot one was off talking with some other people to which I was surprised that she isnt joining her group and isnt eager to talk with me.I end up breaking off and re-joining while she re-joins her group (strike while iron is hot i guess) and the two lgs end up tellin me how the HB8 was the one saying I was hot and they were teasin her about flirting with me.

I just started it with "soo you look like your having a REALLY fun time(she wasnt" and just generally back and forth regular conversation and end up getting her FB then number afterwards.She was complimenting me ALOT to which I didnt even or barely gave her any I sort of felt like an ass but oh well.I am happy because I never really got the whole "your hot" thing I was just average looking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I put FB for Facebook which might have confused you.I coulda gone for number,but I just felt facebook was more appropriate...

Thanks though buddy.Lol your 16 haha Im a 17 thats crazy lol finally some more guys around my age.

On Facebook she is saying stuff like "yeah you must be havin alot of fun,girls chasing you around..".Then she says "im not saying that to boost your ego,i meant what i said".Haha I wish my world was like that lmao
 

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oh man, whoops my bad, totally didnt catch the number/facebook thing, good job!

On Facebook she is saying stuff like "yeah you must be havin alot of fun,girls chasing you around..".Then she says "im not saying that to boost your ego,i meant what i said".Haha I wish my world was like that lmao
use this to your advantage,
play on it.
joke around, that when your "busy" your actually having some wild sex party.
If shes a fun joking around type of person, she will probly play along :)

if she is seriously saying this, dont feel the need to defend yourself and be all like: "oh no, not really".
players get girls, even when the girl knows hes a player.
think about it
for her, its exciting and almost adventurous to think about hooking up with a guy like you that has "girls chasing you around".

have you had a date yet with her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah Alex I totally agree with you.I havent had a date with her yet (too busy)

The ONLY reason why Im tempted not to do it to this girl to the extent that you stated,is that she hasnt done much at all.I checked her "notes" thing on facebook and one of them dated April 2008 showed that she even stated she hasnt really done anything sexual.The only reason Im still pursuing is that she IS still hot.I mean Im sure its not gonna be THAT awesome with her but still though its a crazy opportunity hahaha.She just KEEPS lowering her value though Ive never really had to deal with that.

Thanks for the inputs though guys
 

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are you two messaging each other on facebook at all?

and hey, who cares if shes a virgin or not. Dont worry about that untill you feel like it may happen soon.

well i usually see girls who have had experience already, so im much more open and joke about sex much more. But if you feel like shes gonna be uncomfortable with it, you can tone it down but still keep her believing your this amazing ladies man.

keep us updated :)
 

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ya man been messaging for the past few days but theres atleast 3-4 hour gap within each message since im not online constantly.she keeps saying the whole "im sure youve had alot of girlfriends in the past :)" stuff like that.Then she says relationships with her dont end up too well then telling me "yeah ill find someone eventually..".

WTFFF YOUR IN VANCOUVER TOO?Lmao budday Im in Burnaby bro.This chick lives in North Van lmao a little ways away but w.e its all good.
 
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