“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Girl offers number, texts me twice, then ignores me wtf?!

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Usually I don't get worked up over a girl (not that I really am with this one) it's just that I'm so confused lol.

What happened:

Went out last weekend to a bar, cold approached a 2 set (both hb 8.5's), talked for about 10-15 mins, was going fine, wingman came in and did fine with the girls too so they were liking us, my group of friends wanted to go to another bar, I tell the girls I have to go we are going to another bar but they should come it's going to be a lot of fun etc., girl I'm gaming the most (I was talking to both though) seems kinda sad we are leaving but asks where we are going, i say the area but not sure which bar (we bar hop a lot and just go to the one with the best crowd), she says well they can't go b/c they're with other friends and they want to stay, I peace out (didn't go for #close for some reason lol, just didn't cross my mind), as I'm leaving she comes up to me and offers her number, I take it, text her when we post up at new bar, she immediately says shes coming, they both show up within 15 mins (place is like 10 mins away), wing and i game some more, im talking to both, its going really well imo, i make future plans with them to come with us to this event we are going to in 2 weeks, they agree and seem eager, bar closes we hug good bye

Ok - so i text her 4 days later, she responds later that night, i ignore it b/c it's too late, she texts again the next day, i text her back and text a joke that's kinda risky and she might have gotten offended by it but I thought it was hilarious and that i'm busy i'll call her later though, i call later that night, no answer.... next day... nothing from her

So now I'm sitting here thinking WTF? Trying not to analyze it b/c who the **** knows what girls are thinking/doing.

She's in cancun right now on spring break (i forgot when she gets back) and I'll be out of town this from thurs-sun

What would you guys do next in this situation? call or text her? I was planning on texting her TODAY something basic like

"watched little mermaid and Cinderella back to back last night it was awesome. Whatd you do this weekend?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AllAction said:
She's in cancun right now on spring break (i forgot when she gets back)
You think she's gonna be thinking about YOU when she gets back?

Did you kiss-close her at the bar when she and her friend came after you? Any "kino"? (did you touch her??) Or did you just "spit game"?

Think about this a minute...they were with friends and they decided to bail on those friends and come after you. She was hot for you and then you gave her 4 days to cool off. Now she's in Cancun for spring break being chased by dudes who could kick your ass into next Tuesday.

Do you REALLY think she's gonna be thinking about YOU when she gets back?

Wait until a couple days before the "event" then call her up and see if she's still interested. A no-go or no-reply and you're done with her.

Next time, strike while the iron's hot.
 

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squirrels said:
You think she's gonna be thinking about YOU when she gets back?

Did you kiss-close her at the bar when she and her friend came after you? Any "kino"? (did you touch her??) Or did you just "spit game"?

Think about this a minute...they were with friends and they decided to bail on those friends and come after you. She was hot for you and then you gave her 4 days to cool off. Now she's in Cancun for spring break being chased by dudes who could kick your ass into next Tuesday.

Do you REALLY think she's gonna be thinking about YOU when she gets back?

Wait until a couple days before the "event" then call her up and see if she's still interested. A no-go or no-reply and you're done with her.

Next time, strike while the iron's hot.
thx for the reply

Yea - I think i blew it by waiting 4 days lol

I had a lot of social proof + did some kino, no make out, no dancing

****ing sucks though b/c I know if I could get her to see me again I know she'd like me.

I guess I'll call her on Wed. and leave a message if I get no answer
 

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Enjoy it for what it was man - fun. Don't get so caught up on this one chick.

Naughty, naughty things happen in Cancun. I was there when I was 16. I got laid, by accident. Seriously.

Leave a simple message - "Hey its me, I'm going in and out here, but try to get a hold of me."

That will most likely get an immediate call back.
 

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Like rhoto said, leave a message. Hopefully you did so in the first call. calling a stranger and not leaving a message is kinda creepy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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THanks for the replies guys

I was thinking of just texting her today (b/c I don't really want to call long distance + on spring break her chances of picking up diminish) and get this **** over with. I'm tired of thinking about her and the only way for me to stop is to just go for it.

planning on texting her later today:
Hi xyz! How's your spring break going? Anyway, I hope you, like me are having a great day.

I realize this may seem AFC + weak, but I've been pretty c/f with her and when we first met + last 2 texts they had a lot of confidence in them so she knows I'm not some pu$$y. I'm thinking a sweeter text might work
 

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weird - can't see my last post, here it is again

Thanks guys for the replies.

I'm thinking I'll just text her today and get this crap over with. I'm tired of thinking about her (looks wise she is my exact type) and want to get her out of my mind and the only way for me to do that is to just go for it. I'm planning on just texting her later today rather than calling b/c i don't really want to call long distance + since she's on spring break the chances of her picking up are lower.

my text=
Hi xyz! How's your spring break going? Anyway, I hope you, like me are having a great day.


I realize this may seem afc/weak but I think when I first met her + my 2 texts I had a lot of c/f in there so she won't think i'm some pu$$y. I actually may have gone a little over board in that area so a sweet msg like this might work out better. I also gamed her friend nearly as much as I did her (both liked me a lot I thought) and so did my wing (he didn't go for their #'s though b/c he has a gf) so she might not think I even like her

ugh - I'm overanalyzing this too much I know. Just want to get this over wtih lol
 

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most cute girls give their number to 10 to 20 guys a week... this means that competition to get her is tight and she will be very hasty in her judgments since there are so many suiters to sift through.. basically if you say one wrong thing or something she does not like ur out or if you dont look as good as the other guys or if the wind changes direction she will brush you of..

Dont expect much from bar and number closes just do as many as you can and run strong game quickly.. I get around 7 numbers a night on the weekend then group text them a generic template intro text that i made and see who responds.. those who respond i then call and try to set up a time place to meet.. Failure rat i high 6 out of seven girl will just BS then stop responding but you will usually get 1 to F..
 

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Why are you texting still? It comes off as creepy and at this point, weak.

Re-read your text, what would you think if some chick sent that to you? Seems desperate no?

Trust me, that phone message "Hey its me, (no name, just "Me")..." is much stronger, because it doesn't put any real weight on the outcome, and it perks her curiosity.

C/F can't be as effectively conveyed without tone and facial expressions. Not that it can't be done, but you're better off using something that involves your voice.

Your name is AllAction.

Live up to it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SOLID advice here guys. Thanks for everything, and to update you, I tried contacting her again and it's game on!
 
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