"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Gamed at church today, rubber fell out of pocket on pew.

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Most frightening today is, some...how, my condom fell out of my pocket today. I had to grab it right up when I realized that it was exposed out shiny layin on the pew. This was After I gamed a visitor chick on the other side of me. She didn't see it, but I think that others may have. That could have REALLY been a devastating moment to my rep. Anyhow, this girl I met is h o t, and in the end, I asked her to go hiking with us in a couple of weeks and she accepted. She said she was coming back. The problem is, she's so hot, and where she works is rife for getting hit on by guys, that I don't know if I could handle her. I don't know if she would be hard to control, to not eventually run astray from me. I know that I shouldn't care, but this is an important factor when considering a life-long mate, whether you'll have to put up with multiple swingin d1cks trying to pickup your wife. This ain't the 1950s anymore. Guys WILL game your wife, behind your back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL condom on a church pew :crackup:

I hope you know you shouldn't keep a condom in your pocket. The friction of your moving around can cause the latex to deteriorate meaning it has the potential of breaking during sex. Just keep it in your car but not for too long or on days that get hot.

BTW why are you even talking about life-long mate stuff? If she's hot then there is a 100% chance guys are hitting on her. Know it, accept it and don't let it bother you.
 

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Maxtro said:
If she's hot then there is a 100% chance guys are hitting on her. Know it, accept it and don't let it bother you.
I know, after setting up an account as a 5 or 6 woman on a dating site, I've come to accept that, girls, above a 5 or a 6 are getting hit on like crazy, because my 5 or 6 was getting 12-15 emails a DAY. This just fvcks up all our chances of being a "normal" guy and landing a hot chick. Even outrageous, interesting, fascinating, rich, buff, guys don't get the chance with these hot ones that can have their pick from the dozens of serenading guys that shower her with attention, stuff, and smiles/pandering/pampering.

I could tell today, that no matter how good I look and fit I am and stable job-wise I am, she could swat me away like a knat, because she's gotta be getting a daily onslaught of attention everywhere she turns. The only reason she's in church probably is because she went to a private college supported and favored by our church. She's looking for someone LIKE her. That's MY only chance or connection with her, beyond my good looks, that we are of the same "thinking" or "ideology," cut from the same cloth so-to-speak.

We'll see what happens in the future, if she flakes or sh1t tests me a lot or God knows what. At this point, she's just another name and number in my growing list of names and numbers. She liked my "hitting" on her though and showing interest in her. She was accepting my advances. Good thing she didn't see the rubber.
 
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