"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR : Gah! ****blocking friends!

lebRambo

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hey guys,

alright, so me and some mates head out last thursday, cruising the clubs and sh*t.

Got a few approaches in early, nothing heavy, just some C+F and some light kino.

After we've had a few drinks, we head to...er...a less respectable sort of place. Actually, this place is a dive, but its cheap and its really popular with the uni students, and I can always head down there and there would always be a few people that I know from uni. Anyway I spot this cute little HB7 dancing by herself. I head on over, open her, joke around a little. Anyway, it turns out her name is Lara! Holy sh*t! I've always wanted to meet a girl called lara. Anyway, she left a little later and I kept on rolling.

Spot a two-set later on dancing together. I saw another guy get shot down earlier, so I saw it as a challenge. I start dancing opposite one, catch her eye and smile coyly. From then it was on. I move in, she puts her arms around me, and we dance for a while. Later on we're talking and she's like "Hey! You wanna go get some food!" I smile (she wanted to leave with me). I nod, so we head to the door, but her friends grab her and give me a death glare. I'm like, whatever. So I chill with my mates some more, and she comes over.

I raise an eyebrow and i'm like "....yeah?" She laughs and punches my arm. She takes my hand and we dance some more. Anyway, later on, she's like "wanna go somewhere else?". So we head to the door again and her friends ****block me again! So I get her number and head back over to my mates.

Eventually she leaves with her friends. I see her outside later on, and she's like "hey! what are you doing now?"
I'm like "Just chilling. what about you?". BEFORE she even answers, her friend's like "WE'RE taking her home..." I just smile, say bye, and head off.

not too bad.

2 number closes
1 makeout close.

meeting Lara next week, haven't called the other one yet.


Comments? suggestions on the ****block situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider_007

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playing hard to get puts her friends on your side (they are no longer trying to save her from you, but rather save her from her own urges....)
 

lebRambo

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Originally posted by spider_007
playing hard to get puts her friends on your side (they are no longer trying to save her from you, but rather save her from her own urges....)
any practical tips on doing this in a bar/club type scenario?
 

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Get your boys to wing.
 

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usually in situtations like that you are just SOL.. Thoose are the types of women who go to the clubs to get attention and to look at guys, but are in the same sense hypocrites that when they find one they like they won't leave with him, making a pact to "leave the club together".. I hate thoose women..

Luckily there aren't many of thoose, just call her while the iron is hot
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lebRambo

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update: called her, made some light c+f, fixed up a coffee date for next thursday at uni (she's doing commerce and i'm engineering). I LOVE daytime dates! The pressure is off, and i'm free to be my cool and charming self. awesome. :D
 
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