"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: from sky high interest to low in a matter of hours

JLW

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The girl ended up talking to a good friend of mine.
My friend told me that she said "it was fun. he's a cool kid. He's a good friend"

As I suspected, I'm in the friend zone.

I'm not going to ask this particular girl on another date.


At least I learned some interesting things from it, such as being more bold. I also learned the importance of kino, and how fast a person's opinion can change of you.

Who knows, maybe I was WAY off thinking she was into me, but she pretty much spelled it out for me. Really flirty, she asked ME to hang out, etc. So I think she geniunely was into me at one point. Weird how fast girls can get bored. Next time I'll be more aggressive.

She may also be an AW. She claims to have a lot of male friends, which is a very bad sign of that kinda thing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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