"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: Fri and Sat at clubs

TheSplat

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After a recent breakup with the gf, I'm on the prowl again.

Friday night I went to a club with about 5 friends, some of whom I just met. I sit down outside to smoke a cigarrette and end up talking to these two older women, HB9 and HB7, both are late thirties. I'm making them laugh, AMOGing, and KINO w/ both of them, when they go inside saying "We'll see ya on the dance floor." I go inside a few minutes later and see them out there and dance with them. Later on, they're inside and I initiate convo again. The HB9 is grabbing my face and pulling me close, has me inside her legs while she's sitting and I'm standing. We start kissing, and then her gay friend (seriously, some gay guy she came to the club with) starts C-blocking like crazy. He literally carries her out of the club and she gives me her number, saying "Please call me tomorrow." Well, me being stupid and half-drunk instead of hitting send, to save it in the phone, I hit "End." By the time I realize it, she's gone. Still kicking myself over that one.

Anyway, opened up a few more sets of girls, but most of 'em weren't having it for whatever reason.

Saturday night. Went to a different club with one of my buddies, who I guess isn't used to being out w/ a DJ. He starts pointing out girls he likes, and me, being a good wingman, opens every one of them. I was on my game tonight, every girl was responsive, even married women. So I opened up probably 7 or 8 sets, my boy would come in, and then we'd work from there. A suprising number of married women were out though, but they all said "If I wasn't married...." haha. Also, almost got into a fight because I winked and smiled at these two ladies, who I thought were getting hit on by losers. Turns out they were married to the losers and this guy comes over and starts talking sh*t. So I laugh it off and my boy steps off about 10 feet. I'm standing there talking to him and I hear the guy ragging on my outfit, which was sweet, BTW. I turn around, get in his face, and say "Do you have a f*cking problem?" He completely backs down and starts kissing my ass about how sweet the blazer is, and the boots. Haha.

But yeah, a K and N Close on friday, but I'm retarded. and then Alpha'd up the club on Saturday and left feeling good, but no numbers or kisses. Didn't even try, most of the girls that night weren't that hot.

But feeling back to the old DJ self, and enjoying being single.

Good luck out there guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJuan11

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TheSplat said:
After a recent breakup with the gf, I'm on the prowl again.

Friday night I went to a club with about 5 friends, some of whom I just met. I sit down outside to smoke a cigarrette and end up talking to these two older women, HB9 and HB7, both are late thirties.

But feeling back to the old DJ self, and enjoying being single.

Good luck out there guys.

There is no DJing involved if the girls are in there late 30s. Even late 20s is questionable. If they were 18-22, then I could see it.

Women late 20s = desparate
Women late 30s = forget about it
 

marinetti

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a 19 year old woman can be hot, yes, but women in their 30s who still go out often have a mature sexiness about them that is incredibly attractive. they can also see through bulls*** quickly.
 

NickSCFC2000

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Most women in clubs are complete dogs!

You'll get a few hot young ones, they're out for socialising with new university mates or whatever, they're not off limits but aint out to pull.

Damn the late 20s/30 women in clubs are just bad!
 

TheSplat

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No DJing involved in women older than 22? Tell that to the mature forum guys. A dj's a dj, no matter the age. And trust me, the 9 was smoking hot.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Randallpink83

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I have found the older women to be VERY easy.... in their 30's.. late 30s.. they LOVE young guys and are totally down for it!

I don't even want an older chick like that anymore, been there done that. They are easy though.

But nice FR man, keep it up :rockon:
 

War Against Betaism

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Good job, sucks you didn't get the number though. That happened to me one time when I accidentally assumed the number was saved and flipped my phone closed and next thing I know the number wasn't saved. I only realized this like several hours later and the girl was out of sight then.
 

Fuglydude

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Sex with older women is great...they're not afraid of their own sexuality and know their stuff really well. Furthermore, and perhaps most importantly they're not inhibited like many younger women are.

If they're attractive and that sexual...then hit it! If I was single, I'd probably join a swinger site and a big proportion of the chics i pumped would be 30+!
 
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