"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR; For the nonbelivers

everywomanshero

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Guys, after a bad beating Thursday night I redeemed myself tonight. On Thursday, I got alot of IOIs but ultimately left the bar (due to wing's wishes) after suffering the dreaded "I think you should stop talking now" by a lowlely 7 ****blocker :(

Tonight, I was the man. I ruled. I had women approaching me. I couldn't even tell you how many women I had hanging on me.

I used a 9 that I knew to intro me to the others 8-9-10s (well only 1). Guess what? I got the 10 hanging all over me! I talked a 8.5-9 into buying me a drink.Ha Ha. kick ass bros. This is what I've been training for.

Going out alone definitely has its advantages as does going out late and making sure to dose up on the social proof. Couldn't have went any better. These are the nights we live for!

Cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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manuva

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
Couldn't have went any better.
Wow, you mean you took them ALL back to your place for an orgy where you were the only guy, and they all pillow fought in their underwear in an attempt to win your affection? Then they all began massaging different areas of your body while one of them peeled and fed you grapes, and then they took turns blowing you while you watched your favourite team win the football on tv?

Awesome.

Nice one mate hehe.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ehhhh, I still don't believe you... :p

But seriously, other than going out alone, what changes did you make in your game? What did you actually do?
 

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Confidence

The only difference I see is my confidence and my shampoo. Since I've started using Paul Michell's "The wash" my hair looks a lot better. Even women in Kroger's have started noticing me. I think it is just my self confidence boosting through the ceiling.

I have no idea because many of the women I used no routines on. I just walked up near them. Tonight, I had social proof out the wazzu. That could be the deal breaker but a couple of weeks ago I had none and still got responses. I think just being a guy who will butt in and talk to any woman is enough. Other guys are always saying how fearless I am. I really don't think about it. As nike says, Just do it.

I'm just going with it. Whatever happens, happens. I think the biggest thrill is just the hunt. Thank god for the nights I get shot down, that just makes victory all the sweeter.
 
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