"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Odd title? Not so much. Me and my buddy went out on Friday, first time I've gone out in quite some time so I wasn't expecting much of anything to really happen. I end up seeing this girl and her guy friend, this girl kept looking at us. My buddy goes up to open her up whilst I buy a drink. Then I turn around and they motion at me to come over there.

Walk over, say whats up, and this girl knew me from High School and thats why she was looking our way. I didn;t recognize her at first but then it hit me who she was, no not a crazy girl just a girl from my town who changed a bit. So she wanted to take shots, my buddy was paying so fuvk it lets do it. She was kinoing the living piss out of me (touching my face with both hands, bumping into me, grabbing me in all my manly areas) , her body language was directed towards me and all was in my favor. I did NOT reciprocate on the kino, why? I wasn't a fan of this girl lol plus I saw another I wanted to open.

I wing for my buddy and get him the in. As soon as I gave that closed off body lanauge and did NOT kino her back, she shifted her interest towards my friend. He started to kino her and now she was really feeling my friend. Boom instant in. I go over and talk to some other girl. Later that night I found another girl I knew from High school, she has always been gorgeous and ended up kissing her before I ended up going home.

The interesting part of the night was that dynamic between her interest shifting towards me to my friends. My friend was the one who opened her up, i acted a bit aloof, she went for me with kino etc, i passed her up, she went for my friend after a bit of kinoing from him.

I just found it so interesting as I am seeing this all unfold in front of me and me actually understanding the whole wordless interaction.

Just thought Id share this. Body language and kino.... two killers in picking up women (though you fellas should already know this ;) )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes!

Kino, body language, and facial expressions go so much further than words. I'm pretty collected when I'm picking up girls but I can easily slip out something smooth or carry on the convo.

But the secret is your actions!
 

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Thanks for the replies fellas. So I did another experiment on campus today. This morning I walked with my arms crossed over my chest, head a bit down, and my shoulders rolled forward. I got almost 0 looks from any person walking by.

After that class, I switched up my posture. Chest out, shoulders back, walking with a purpose, hand movements and all. I also let my eye lids relax. I received a lot of looks from girls and guys. The guys kind of gave me an intimadated type look and I got smiles and stares from the girls.

Just a micro-experiment that I also thought I'd share. Been doing a lot of body language stuff lately for fun.
 

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There is a universal language: body language. Kino is a part of body language. With that, you can control anyone and anything really. Not that you would really need it, but sometimes it can be handy. First impressions count too. That's why when you first see somebody and you just naturally like them (or dislike them too), it's because their current body language is strongly appealing to you naturally. You don't even realize it.

Anyway, just thought I'd add that. Carry on.
 

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johnny chops, u docta yet
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JohnChops said:
Graduating from undergrad in may,taking a year off, then applying sometime in the next 6-7 months to med school. Soon enough man. :woo:
Best of luck on the MCAT...I never got much farther than learning the basics of dehydrohalogenation.

EDIT: When you go in for interviews you should talk about Sosuave as a main factor in why you want to pursue medicine. :up:
 
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