"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: First ever!

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Well let me just say. I feel damn good. Last night was the first time I had "Tried" to use many of the things I had learned from this wonderful site. And I got my first kiss close and the number.
I always usually do one thing or another but always forget to do many things at once . But Last night it seemed to all come together I felt like I was in control.

I feel this will be a long post so. But its my first so I dont give a damn.

By the way a HB 5 to me is an average girl that I would have sex with and admit to my friends about . There is no such thing as a 10.
An HB 3 is someone who I would sleep with and NOT admit to. Pretty much I tell my friends to take their scale, rate the girl and then subtract 2. Thats what I would give em. What can I say im picky.

First the FIT.
My outfit was straight up pimping I jacked my bros most expensive shirt and nicest pair of ripped up jeans. He has a much better fashion sense than I . I looked DAMN good. This had to be part of the good things last night.

Started out the night at a Club with two of my asian HB 7's. No interest here just these girls I go out with on a semi regular basis, cause we all go out to have a good time. So we're there chillin, I see a couple more lady friends. An UG 3 and a tall HB6 which I would do any day of the week. Let me just say I knew prolly 13 peeps there at the club. But my Guy didnt show up. He is a MAJOR AFC. Decent looking guy gets mostly UG3's he has low standards.


Ok down to business.
So my buddy finally shows up, I take my 2 asians out to the dance floor and he comes along. Were all dancing together when I see a couple Glow Bracelets were thrown out to the crowd by our feet. I pick em up and give one to my buddy.

He immediately turned to his right to catch the look of a tall Blonde HB 5.25 She was 5'11'' long luscious legs I'd give her a 7 on the body. And slips the bracelet on her. Nice move for an AFC.

I jump in "Hell no. What are you doing. I gave this thing to you and you give it to HER uh uh." I say " Sorry honey" I take her hand and slide the bracelet off and give it back to my friend. He looks at me Dumbfounded. As does she. So he immediately gives her ANOTHER one and I do the same, take if off her. Of course with a big smile on my face looking into her eyes. He then proceeds to give an HB 4.25 a lei he was wearing and AGAIN I say " No what did they do to deserve these?" I go to take off the lei, and she goes to put it on me.

"Nah you can keep it" I tell her and put it back on
Bam I knew it was a lock right there. Don't know how or why I just did. I was getting major EC from both. So we proceed to dance to a song when the worst music comes on...Country..Bah sadly I had gotten stuck the HB 4.25 eh not my type. So I "urge" them to go dance on the bar. Major EC and smile. Of course they do.

Once again my buddy looks at me dumbfounded. He said how do you do it? Eh it wasnt that hard.

So girls go to get up on bar when music stops for some reason. So they go on a bathroom break. Tell me buddy lets leave. He says why so I tell him "Two steps forward one step back" So we go chill with my two Asians for about 10 min. He was antsy to go back I told him to be patient.

So a damn good song comes on, I grab my two Girls and bring em out on the floor, I make my usual circle in a giant crowd. I dance with em for a few minutes when HB Tall Blonde comes grabs my hand and pulls me over to her and my AFC buddy and HB 4.5. I proceed to start dancing with the HB 5.5. And pull her in close and just I felt it. I mean EC, close talking good stuff. Dance like this for a few min.

Look over at my buddy he's just standing with a sour look on his face. I urge him to dance with HB 4.25 but he wasnt feeling the music "SHAME ON YOU. " So I tell the girls that we need a bathroom break. I pull him back to where we were sitting and give him the "talk" I tell him that the wing should not bring down the level of the group, and he was currently bringing it down. He said ok he'll work on it.

So then he says. Which one do I want. I didn't want to be greedy cause I could have had both. So I tell him either one.
I then suggested ROCK PAPER SCISSORS to decide who gets the Tall Blonde.

So here we are like two asses in the middle of the club doing paper scissors rock to decide who gets to go for it. Of course I win, I was going to take her either way.

So immediately after I win I go up to Tall Blonde, and pull her in and start grinding for the next few songs.

I decide to go in for the kiss. She "slightly" pulls away. WHAT!!. I swore i was gonna get that kiss. So Immediately look in her eyes and say " Will you stop trying to kiss me already Im not easy"
She gets a big smile on her face. Bam go in for it again...SUCCESS. Dance some more. SUCCess again. alright then the worst happens. Closing time. Lights come on I say so what are you doing after (SHould have told, Lets go do something instead of asked)

She says go home, hmm I say in my head " This was good practice I can accept that" So we walk out together hand in hand. I turn to her and say with a goofy grin.

Me "So you come here often"
HB 5.25 "No not really"
Me" In that case Give me your number"
HB5.25 Smiles "OK!"

Punches in number nice kiss close and I am off. High as a kite.

A 5.25 is a good start for me. On to bigger and better things.

Some positives for the night.
+Awesome outfit
+Confidence
+Social status
+Not getting drunk
+Kiss close
+Getting the numba

Negatives
-Should have isolated her I could have had that
-More touching sensually
-More kissing
-More sexual all around
-Make a move to hit that $hit

Comments welcome!
 
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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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lebRambo

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well done man. I'm not gonna critique your game. i'll leave that to other, more experienced people than me.

One thing i'd like to say though: why just open one set the entire night? thats like going to a themepark and only riding one ride! You made the effort to make yourself look good, the clothes and all that, so you might as well get your money's worth and open as many sets as you can in one night. Thats not saying ditch a set early that you might be able to number close on, but dating is a numbers game, and maybe 1 out of 3 numbers will result in anything.
 

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Well about more sets.

First thing is I invited my Asian HB's with. So I was obligated to hang with them some and try to hook em up with some guys. They were awesome on the dance floor and KNEW when and why they had to leave me with the girls. NO cokblocking. Awesome girls to bring out.

As to opening other girls. I was sitting with asian Hb's in an interesting convo on whether girls want to go out with the intent of picking up guys or just hanging with the ladies. There happened to be a table of 3 decent looking ladies next to us so I jump in on their convo

"Hey ladies. So when you girls go out, do you go out to meet new people or just hang with the girls?"

Group " Sorry tonight we're just hanging with the ladies"

Me "sorry for what I was just asking a question, it wasn't like I was trying to hit on you guys " I smiled and returned to my Asains. They giggled a bit.

Later in the night. I see an HB 8.5 I used to go to hight school with I wasn't sure it was her So im sitting with my Asains again.

HB 8.5 looks at me, I say Hey you come here. Wave her over. She comes over and we fluff talk for about 5 min. I wasn't sure if it was her , She used to be a HB 6.5 but got way hotter. I tell her she looks good now, and I came u[ with a hit that she works at the strip club . She says no no shes been there recently. But I tell her , well damn you should. We talk for a few min laugh and stuff, just me and her. But I wasn't feeling any intrest so I put my hand on her shoulder and say Nice talking to you. Resume convo with Asians

Another hightlight of the night. If you read earlier I had another HB 3.5 and tall brown haired HB 6 ish I met a couple weeks ago. Thought she wasn't bad so I buddied up with her on myspace. Talked a lil flirted a lil and then I DELETED HER off myspace. To get her thinking.

Well when she was leaving I went up to her and said, your Hb3.5 friend tells me you think I hate you.

HB6.5 She told you that?

Me Yeah, but dont worry girl I dont hate you , you just didnt keep me entertained on myspace. But I guess I could put you on.. but under one condition. You Gotta help me find those widgets I was asking about ( She works at a hardware store and i was kidding with her asking me to find em)So ill put you back on if you find em. Do you know where they are?

HB I think they are in my room (she was leaving to go home)

Me " So you neeed help finding them then "?

HB I just might (she gave me this SEXY grin and just walked out.

Right now actually Im currently just wrote her an email about being a good girl, and to prove me otherwise, and trying to gett her number.

How I was thinking about taking her out for lunch, but decided against it. SHe just responde back with how shes not so nice, and at the end of the email she wrote.

"I like Chilis":
I think I might have that one too :)

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well done,

however, your friend was holding you back. Try teaching him the way of the "zen master".

I'm proud of you.;)
 

I'm Joe Dirt

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Good job! You've done something that I suspect at least 1/2 of the viewers of this website would never have the balls to do (go pick up chicks).

I know EXACTLY what you mean about that feeling of having it all come together! I was on a date last week where I got to use a lot of my knowledge I got here as well as through other areas of study like NLP and Cold Reading and I felt all these things combining in my head in creating a "Super Me".

Good stuff! That's how we know we're on the right track.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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