FR - first date with a cute redhead

[blind_one]

Met her through an acquaintance she rarely sees, friendly setting we all walked her home and I took her number.

Set a date and place. Got flaked on. She was not feeling okay so she though its better to reschedule since she is not feeling 100%. Said its cool.

Some time passed we tried scheduling but it did not work out. At this point I was ready to delete her number. It was weird since I really though we connected but hey, life goes on.

After almost a month when I was clearing my phone out of numbers I stumbled up on her and said , why not lets shoot her a message. " Greetings XXXX, I know you are a busy person yet I intend to meet you this week. Which days suit you best ? " We agreed on Wednesday.

Parked near a shop where were supposed to meet, bought a bottle of wine.

Parked near my house, and we went to the beach. While we were crossing the street a grabbed her hand to guide her though She did not take it after we crossed the road. Random chit chat though out. We sat down on a blanket sipped some wine. She was fine with kino all the way though. She wanted to know how old I am ( Last time I answered, old enough ... to buy drinks . which is 18 here ). So I played around with it on and on , gave her a couple pointers. She started getting more and more flustered so I started mocking and tickling her. Wrestled around on the blanket, then I mounted her to tickle her some more took her hand above her head, smelled her neck.

Hey, so this is where the good smell came from, when you entered my car. Oh she smelled good. Kissed her neck and around then to her cheeck and back to the neck and then the lips. She said something I did not like so I spanked her. " You are not going to behave like that or the next time its gonna be harder "

I needed to use the toilet so we went back to my place for a bit.

Good kino both on the beach and at my place, hugs,tickles, good stuff. I played with her hair when I wanted to.

I could see she was a bit shy/nervous almost fearful of my gaze which she could barely hold for more than a second.

She was time constrained so I walked her to the tram and a goodbye kiss.

Overall ( 2 and half hours) I had much fun teasing and applying couch judo on her.

My gut tells me it is the first time, as she is very youung, someone was so direct and unapologetic with her.

Suggestions ? I suppose I will text her some beta reassurance + schedule another meet-up.

 

[TheGambino]

I would take a step down since the girl is not experienced (based on your post). Don't come off too hard next time, just give it a few days and wait until she texts, if she does't give her a call! Make her feel important, and act like you care about what she does in her life and listen too her well. She will feel more open, trusty towards you. If you keep up the good work she will obey to you and eventually think she likes/loves you. Then your hooked and you can fvck her anyday without scaring her with coming off to hard.

I once came off too strong on a christian cute girl. She loved the sexual stuff but I scared her away eventually because I overdid it. But older girls with more experience won't be scared off when you touch her 100% of the time. They like it.

I really like your style bro, keep it up.

 

[blind_one]

Thanks TheGambino. It really seems I have blown this one out of the water since I was way too forward with her if thats even possible. We will see what time brings.