Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dustmuffin

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Ok met this chick on match. I used my direct approach of asking for the date straight away. I met her for drinks.

She is very talkative. I'm using very heavy kino. She even finds it hard to think because I am stroking her thigh. I'm sitting right next to her. Using direct eye contact. She is always the first to look away.

She tells me I have very pretty eyes and I go for the mid date kiss. It was well recieved. She asks me what I'm thinking. I said that I was thinking of the mating habits of snails.

I ask if she wants to drop by my house for TV and drinks. I look into her eyes and wait for an answer. She says she knows what a good girl would do. I lean in and kiss her again. I told her it would only be TV and drinks. She accepts.

The minute she is in my house she is all over me. We smash. Her period starts in the middle of the deed. I *** get her a wet wash cloth to clean up with and kick her out the door.

I think I gamed her fairly well. I was spot on with my amused mastery and ****ey and funny. I can feel that my game has improved. Total cost of date 10 usd
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The minute she is in my house she is all over me. We smash. Her period starts in the middle of the deed. I *** get her a wet wash cloth to clean up with and kick her out the door.
For some reason I got a good chuckle reading this part. Well done sir.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dustmuffin

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Bravo. What did you say to maneuver her out the door?
After I gave her the cloth I put my clothes on. She was apologizing and saying she hadn't had a period in months. I ignored as she had a panty shield in her panties. She said I must have done something. She was embarrassed and I just ignored. I gave her her clothes and she put them on. As we were talking I walked her to the door. I opened it and she followed me outside. I kissed her goodnight and she got in her car and left.
 

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Well done, how it should be done.
 

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What's your first message you send? Good job on the first date lay. When I go on a date there's actually a 80% chance I fk on the first date. It's a good feeling when your game is that strong.
 

dustmuffin

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What's your first message you send? Good job on the first date lay. When I go on a date there's actually a 80% chance I fk on the first date. It's a good feeling when your game is that strong.
My usual first message

Hey XXX what's up? your profile caught my eye and I would like to meet you. we could message endlessly or just meet for drinks. what does your schedule look like this week?

Dustmuffin

I get good results with this. I could have 5 or more dates a week using this message. I have had to double book on many occasion.
Now I shoot for about 3 a week. 2 with repeat girls and one new. Having so many dates has really helped my game.
 
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