"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR : First clubbing pickup

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I went clubbing yesterday, and for the first time, I picked up a chick and got her number (usually I wasn't in for the talk, only for the dancing .... and it's really hard to get interest going that way unless you're like an amazing dancer). So I come in the club, dance and wiggle around, then I'm sweating hot so I walk outside with a friend to take a breath of air. We chill outside, then go back in; on the way, I make eye-contact with this hottie, and this wasn't some "I look in your direction" but actual "come here I wanna **** you now" kindof looks from her. So anyway I walk back in, go chill on a bench, then when I'm ready to go dancing again, I walk up the floor and first thing I see is the girl telling me to come and see her. She's already dancing with someone, but still starts dancing with me AT THE SAME TIME lol.

She gets rid of the other dude, and we go sit down and talk some .. and more lol. We made out like mad, then some dude comes around and acts all *****y and ****, says to me he's her boyfriend (but when I made out with her for 15 minutes IN FRONT OF HIM, where was he??) sounds like bs, anyways the girl is scared. I number and kiss-close her, and she leaves.

I was acting ****y+funny, and she was digging it hardcore. So, I just found a use for the seats and for the stuff off the dancefloor; usually I'd just be dancing constantly, but now I'll stop a bit more often I think.;)

Now the only problem is, my phone died on me as I got out of the club. As in, it won't start up at all anymore, and the chick's number's on it. :cuss:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good, you don't want a girl like that. Unstable, not quality material. Learn from that experience and find yourself a girl that isn't such a psycho hose bag.

I work at a club, we see girls like them all the time. Not good dating material.
 
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Yeah I agree you dont want her.

But I believe your phone company can get the numbers off the phone for you and transfer them to a new phone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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