"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: first approach in Melb

Deadly_Assassin

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I just moved to Melbourne 10 days ago. This place is incredible. Its very classy, well planned and I love those trams. Tons and tons of gorgeous women, especially compared to Auckland. I remember my first couple of days here, I just wanted to go home and wank till my balls were sore.

I have been going to my mate's uni library for the free internet. I always catch this chick staring at me, so finally, I decided to approach her. We were sitting opposite each other on the computer desk. I asked her for a pen. I wrote 'Whats your name?' on a piece of paper and passed it across. We can't talk loudly in the library. So, we started writing and passing messages on this piece of paper. I was just mostly talking about what she was studying and where she was from. She had to leave, so she came across and sat beside me. She seemed all exicted and turning the chair she was sitting on side to side. She then said she had to go and if I was gonna be there tomorrow. I said no, but she could write her no. on the paper. She then gave me the boyfriend line and I responded saying that it was fine with me, and that I wasn't the jealous type. She laughed. She then said sorry and left.

Maybe I should build more rapport next time?

Ps: moderator, could you please take off the 'Master DOn Juan' under my name or replace it with 'Masterbator DOn Juan'? I keep going back to square one always.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MrS

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That was fairly good, this one is a bit confusing for me, possibly she indeed had a boyfriend.
But was all into you.
Maybe you just seemed different and interesting.

Anyway, onwards and upwards!
 
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