FR: Finally Pushed Myself To Cold Approach

[BBX]

Damn first time I ever seriously cold approached a girl and one thing I learned is its a hell of a lot easier then you first make it out to be. So this is how it went down and no, it was not successful, but I did nothing wrong.

Last week I noticed this girl sitting alone at lunch and figured she's a freshman so i'd already have a massive chance (i'm a junior). I didn't think too much of her at first but then she stood up and she had niceeeeeee tits and ass and she wasnt bad looking. She kinda looked emo and like loserish but I figured that would make it easier for me. I don't give a sh.it about anything specific, if shes got nice ass/tits and is decent looking thats all I want. So then i'm like I gotta approach her. And so I get nervous and make excuses and end up not approaching her. But I get a second chance, and I run with it.

So I realise she has lunch every other day and yea she was there again, same spot same everything. So i'm sitting there thinking about approaching her and i'm nervous and i'm afraid I would throw up on her lmao. But but, I figured out how I tick so to speak, my newfound approach routine.

I took a walk to the bathroom and looked in the mirror. I punched myself really hard in the shoulder and the pain from that took away the approach anxiety.

So I walk over and i'm like "hey why are u sitting all alone". And shes like huh what i dont know. And then I sat down and asked her if she was a freshman blah blah quick school sh.it if she liked the school crap like that. And yea I also asked what her name is and I could barley hear what she said. I donno wtf. She seeemed soooo shy and just kinda left me hanging. I mean I did approach without any ioi's but she just seemed weird and not responsive at all and I was very upbeat and imo nailed the approach pretty well. Weird girl possibly?, move on screw her?, use the experence I got on more appraoches? It also felt weird to ask for her number bc she was so shy and weird. I have no idea, but the good thing is I did something I would never think of doing and actually find this quite fun lmao. Thanks

 

[ChrizZ]

good job. Now u gotta forget that chick and move on...

 

[BBX]

if i see her again i'll say hi to her. maybe she was soooo intimidated off the whole thing,,,hey girls can be afc too

 

[BBX]

i donno, maybe opening with "why are u sitting all alone" was wayyyyyyyy to ****y and scared her. maybe i was too sexy for a little fresman girl to handle hahaha...like i said, ill say hi to her if i see her and see where it goes... I do know for shure tho, pleanty more approaches from here on from me, after you do it for the first time, its fun. its like hooking up with a girl for the first time, u dont kno what your doing, but u become an expert after the first time. yea mctwist, room for improvement for shure tho.

 

[Black Circle]

props

 

[GaryUranga]

emo kids are usually shy, I know a couple of emoish hot girls and theyre shy, good job anyways, try to break her shy bareer.

 

[BBX]

lol i seriously scared the shi\ out of that girl, today she had that lunch and saw me and looked scared and walked out with a girl she knew. I don't know if that was bad or good.

 

[Scandalous]

One thing that motivated me to approach was ShyRider's 36 Approaches to Sucess, at the time i was averagin 2-3 a week, now everyone i see is a potential and I'm just floatin all over (in a non obvious way). I use my own moves i start with kino, *lean into personal space and slide my hand down their forearm to pull on their hand* I always get a positive response.