"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's simple...

Wear protection, always.

You need to be comfortable mentally for this to happen. Your brain is the strongest sexual organ, it's all mental.
 
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This has happened to me before.

It's all in your head, there's nothing wrong with you at all physically.

Basically your problem comes down to comfort (or lack of it), nerves, poor preparation, and self-conciousness.

Your mind didn't feel comfortable in the situation, so basically everything just shuts down. Then you throw nerves in the mix and that just makes the situaion worse. On top of that, you were unprepared and didn't bring a condom with you. Of course, your brain, as a defense mechanism will stop anything from happening. On top of that, you're self concious because you have a lack of experience and you're afraid you won't be able to please her, so you psych yourself out mentally.

The next time you're in this kind of situation, be prepared physically and mentally. Make sure you have protection and prepare yourself physically. Relax and just enjoy the moment.
 
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