duke007
Master Don Juan
Fellow DJ's, I've been meaning to post this field report for quite some time.
Donni and I were getting frustrated by our lack of success on the previous two Tuesday nights. We let diminishing crowds and lack of obvious opportunities affect our performance, which had to stop.
I was also torn between two worlds as I have been dating a great girl over the past month. Donni is really keen to, in his own words, become a huge pimp, so I really wanted to give him some valuable support. He looked the part in a pink shirt and styled hair, which was a huge difference from his appearance last time. Peacocking like this gave him a huge confidence boost...I could almost feel the positive vibe emanating from him.
The night was quick, the women were few and far between but I think we both adapted well to the situation.
Not long after we got there, we stood by the dancefloor. Donni wanted us to act like we didn't give a f*ck....just stand there and look at our surroundings....make our intentions clear with no shame. It must have worked because two fatties stood right in front of us about 1 metre away and made a show of admiring each others' hair. One of them I'd classify as a hot fattie (an HB8+ if she lost weight), but that wasn't good enough. We were unaffected.
5 approaches stand out:
Approach 1
Donni walked right up to two girls sitting beside the dancefloor. I was impressed because it was noisy, and because he's so tall he had to stoop down without looking awkward. The hotter girl excused herself quickly so Donni told the other one that she looked German. She was, so he got instant rapport and from what I saw she was warming right up to him. Moments after the friend came back I was about to step in and wing but Donni ejected anyway. It didn't really lead anywhere but worth mentioning as Donni's attitude was straight to the point and unique.
Approach 2
It was my turn, so I opened two young looking girls in the quiet room. One of them was drinking a lot and talkative but my game was way off. To be honest I felt like a fraud...trying to chat up what seemed like ditzy high schoolers on Tuesday night while already dating two others (one of whom I see as GF worthy). My conscience was playing tricks on me and they could probably tell. Donni and I had a long chat about this afterwards. It helped to put my mind at ease by viewing this whole night as a character building exercise rather than pickup hunt.
Approach 3
Now that I felt calm we walked upstairs and saw three super hotties sitting in a group. In a dead environment filled with teen girlies and skanks they were like a shining beacon. I was determined to approach the glamourous blonde, who seemed like an HB9+. I grabbed my balls and sat down next to her. Up close I gauged her as an HB8.5, mainly because I don't go for that barbie doll look. Donni thought she was an HB9.5 though, as I'm sure many guys would. For the first time, I tried an opinion opener I thought of that day. "I need an expert female opinion. At a speech today the speaker said women have higher emotional intelligence than men, but I disagree. What do you think?" This started a decent discussion on the sexes, she was very opinionated but still had a stuck-up air about her.
So I decided to use some neghits. I told her I liked her hair, then followed up with "Yeah I like it a little messy on top." She started to qualify herself, mentioning her upcoming hair appointment to fix up her "top deck" hair. This led to a variety of good opportunities for negs/teasing. I asked about the amount of time a girl needs to apply makeup, talked about her freckles (which were hidden) and accused her of being vain about her appearance and liking attention ("Blondes get noticed more in clubs than brunettes," she said). While I was saying all this in the correct manner, and she wasn't getting hurt/touchy about any of this, I got the sense that she wasn't showing genuine indicators of interest.
I asked another opinion question, "Do women really understand what guys want and need?" This led her to rue the sensitivity of many men today, which I expected. She basically admitted she has never really cared less about a guys feelings and needs. I said, "You're the type of girl my mum warned me about" and a bit later, "I'll warn my friends never to date you" She laughed, but the lack of positive interest was due to the fact she had a boyfriend (she said he rode a motorbike and was out of town...she named the town so I could tell it wasn't made up). Before long I thanked her for answering my questions and left with Donni, who was trying his best to keep her two friends occupied. I was glad that I could carry myself confidently with an HB8.5-9.5 and not supplicate like other guys.
Approach 4
Donni saw two girls standing acting stuckup and rejecting guys by freezing them out. He came up with an awesome line, "Are you guys having fun rejecting guys" He hesitated about using it so I forced him to. From her body language it worked well. He was saying something along the lines of, "I keep seeing guys leave with a sad look on their face, how mean" and "Give me your best shot" I thought I was required to wing at any moment but then he strangely ejected. He misread her body language, because compared to the other guys he was doing well....i think those brainfarts in the first 2 minutes of his sets are stuffing him up too much.
Approach 5
The last notable approach was Donni's idea. Wing for some guy who was taking on a 2-set, leaving one girl on the outer. I sat next to her and pointed out that she looked bored, waiting for her friend to stop chatting up the guy. She was so glad to have some attention! Pity she looked a bit plainer up close. She asked for my name and shook my hand almost straight away. She had some crappy looking pearls around her neck so i said while touching them, "Nice pearls, are they real?" She laughed and admitted they were plastic so I suggested they came from a gumball machine or the arcade game where you grab onto a soft toy. This got her talking...but soon her friend and the guy noticed me and started looking over. What the f*ck was he doing? Their little silence encouraged the friend suggest to my target to go and dance. She told me, "my friend wants to go dance, but i'll be back soon" and touched me on the arm. The guy walked away, seemingly rejected. Damn, i winged for this guy and he let me down
So that was the rundown of our night...Donni made some more approaches but the details are a little hazy. Overall we were pleased that this is becoming easier. Location was shocking though....as I said on the night, when a fisherman goes out to make a catch, he fishes in the most bountiful part of the ocean. We were dangling our rods in some crappy old metaphorical creek.
Donni and I were getting frustrated by our lack of success on the previous two Tuesday nights. We let diminishing crowds and lack of obvious opportunities affect our performance, which had to stop.
I was also torn between two worlds as I have been dating a great girl over the past month. Donni is really keen to, in his own words, become a huge pimp, so I really wanted to give him some valuable support. He looked the part in a pink shirt and styled hair, which was a huge difference from his appearance last time. Peacocking like this gave him a huge confidence boost...I could almost feel the positive vibe emanating from him.
The night was quick, the women were few and far between but I think we both adapted well to the situation.
Not long after we got there, we stood by the dancefloor. Donni wanted us to act like we didn't give a f*ck....just stand there and look at our surroundings....make our intentions clear with no shame. It must have worked because two fatties stood right in front of us about 1 metre away and made a show of admiring each others' hair. One of them I'd classify as a hot fattie (an HB8+ if she lost weight), but that wasn't good enough. We were unaffected.
5 approaches stand out:
Approach 1
Donni walked right up to two girls sitting beside the dancefloor. I was impressed because it was noisy, and because he's so tall he had to stoop down without looking awkward. The hotter girl excused herself quickly so Donni told the other one that she looked German. She was, so he got instant rapport and from what I saw she was warming right up to him. Moments after the friend came back I was about to step in and wing but Donni ejected anyway. It didn't really lead anywhere but worth mentioning as Donni's attitude was straight to the point and unique.
Approach 2
It was my turn, so I opened two young looking girls in the quiet room. One of them was drinking a lot and talkative but my game was way off. To be honest I felt like a fraud...trying to chat up what seemed like ditzy high schoolers on Tuesday night while already dating two others (one of whom I see as GF worthy). My conscience was playing tricks on me and they could probably tell. Donni and I had a long chat about this afterwards. It helped to put my mind at ease by viewing this whole night as a character building exercise rather than pickup hunt.
Approach 3
Now that I felt calm we walked upstairs and saw three super hotties sitting in a group. In a dead environment filled with teen girlies and skanks they were like a shining beacon. I was determined to approach the glamourous blonde, who seemed like an HB9+. I grabbed my balls and sat down next to her. Up close I gauged her as an HB8.5, mainly because I don't go for that barbie doll look. Donni thought she was an HB9.5 though, as I'm sure many guys would. For the first time, I tried an opinion opener I thought of that day. "I need an expert female opinion. At a speech today the speaker said women have higher emotional intelligence than men, but I disagree. What do you think?" This started a decent discussion on the sexes, she was very opinionated but still had a stuck-up air about her.
So I decided to use some neghits. I told her I liked her hair, then followed up with "Yeah I like it a little messy on top." She started to qualify herself, mentioning her upcoming hair appointment to fix up her "top deck" hair. This led to a variety of good opportunities for negs/teasing. I asked about the amount of time a girl needs to apply makeup, talked about her freckles (which were hidden) and accused her of being vain about her appearance and liking attention ("Blondes get noticed more in clubs than brunettes," she said). While I was saying all this in the correct manner, and she wasn't getting hurt/touchy about any of this, I got the sense that she wasn't showing genuine indicators of interest.
I asked another opinion question, "Do women really understand what guys want and need?" This led her to rue the sensitivity of many men today, which I expected. She basically admitted she has never really cared less about a guys feelings and needs. I said, "You're the type of girl my mum warned me about" and a bit later, "I'll warn my friends never to date you" She laughed, but the lack of positive interest was due to the fact she had a boyfriend (she said he rode a motorbike and was out of town...she named the town so I could tell it wasn't made up). Before long I thanked her for answering my questions and left with Donni, who was trying his best to keep her two friends occupied. I was glad that I could carry myself confidently with an HB8.5-9.5 and not supplicate like other guys.
Approach 4
Donni saw two girls standing acting stuckup and rejecting guys by freezing them out. He came up with an awesome line, "Are you guys having fun rejecting guys" He hesitated about using it so I forced him to. From her body language it worked well. He was saying something along the lines of, "I keep seeing guys leave with a sad look on their face, how mean" and "Give me your best shot" I thought I was required to wing at any moment but then he strangely ejected. He misread her body language, because compared to the other guys he was doing well....i think those brainfarts in the first 2 minutes of his sets are stuffing him up too much.
Approach 5
The last notable approach was Donni's idea. Wing for some guy who was taking on a 2-set, leaving one girl on the outer. I sat next to her and pointed out that she looked bored, waiting for her friend to stop chatting up the guy. She was so glad to have some attention! Pity she looked a bit plainer up close. She asked for my name and shook my hand almost straight away. She had some crappy looking pearls around her neck so i said while touching them, "Nice pearls, are they real?
" She laughed and admitted they were plastic so I suggested they came from a gumball machine or the arcade game where you grab onto a soft toy. This got her talking...but soon her friend and the guy noticed me and started looking over. What the f*ck was he doing? Their little silence encouraged the friend suggest to my target to go and dance. She told me, "my friend wants to go dance, but i'll be back soon" and touched me on the arm. The guy walked away, seemingly rejected. Damn, i winged for this guy and he let me down So that was the rundown of our night...Donni made some more approaches but the details are a little hazy. Overall we were pleased that this is becoming easier. Location was shocking though....as I said on the night, when a fisherman goes out to make a catch, he fishes in the most bountiful part of the ocean. We were dangling our rods in some crappy old metaphorical creek.