"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Direct method at the club...pulled a guilt trip on a biitch lol..I'm on fire.

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Ok so I have tonight planned, my buddies wife was out of town which meant he was able to party tonight, I got off work at 10 pm, get home iron my clothes, throw on a semi loose white long sleeve shirt with my vest and meet up with my 2 hs buddies on Mill ave at the Cherry Lounge.

In the club, go say hi to my boys, buy them some drinks and get myself a drink. I see a 2 set of hb 8 Latinas, go up to both of them at the bar, go "drug dealer" completely bombed the opener (had 1 drink too many and wasn’t too sharp) the Latina on the right gives her friend one of those looks like, lets ignore him, the girl on the right was a little more receptive so I use this to my advantage. I go up to the girl on the right and say "hey I saw the face your girlfriend made, that's girl code for lets ignore him" her: lol, me: "hey im just out here trying to meet new people and make friends and socialize, isn’t that why people go to clubs?"

Lol, totally opened her up with the 'guilt trip', froze the friend out and talked to her for a minute, she told me what was up, the other girls bf is in Iraq, and the girl I was talking to's bf was in the club, but we were cool the rest of the night, I asked her about my outfit, she said she thought I was doing too much lol (we'll see about that) but we were cool.

Left that set and went up to my buddy and he says, "lol u got dissed." GAME ON.....Now it s a challenge and I have to show my boy up for saying that.

I see a 5 set, and I tell him, "ok watch this".....I go up the the 5 set, start conversation with the 2 girls, HBfreckles and HBfunnyface (She was actually good looking but was making funny faces) I ask them to look at my outfit and tell me if it's doing too much lol, next thing you know, I asked how everyone knows each other, I get introduced to the 3 guys, I tell them, "what’s up wit the funny faces your girl is making, is she always like that" the guys end up helping me out, they were cousins and the 2 girls were roommates, guy introduces me to hbfreckles (red hair, 5'2" nice lil petite body) and he tells me hbfreckles would work me on the dance floor, I ask if thats a challenge and the cousin tells her to dance with me. Start walking with her to the dancefloor, look across the club at my buddy and wink at him as I'm walking with hbfreckles to the dancefloor (in a 'don’t ever challenge me' sort of way), we dance for 2 songs I get her number, talk to her at the bar for a minute, challenge her to a drinking contest, she wins, do the 7 dash number close on a piece of paper.end up "bouncing" to IHOP later on that night.

Later on I'm with my buddies and they want to go but we do 1 more walk as I'm leading the way. I see a 3 set of girls at the bar. One of them was the hottest girl I've seen at the club in a while HBExotic about a 9-9.5 (half Persian, half Puerto Rican, DD's she was stacked about 5'6" maybe, long black hair, looked like those Indian models that always win those pageants). So I approach the 'other' chick first and say "u look like you're having TOO much fun" she was talking back to me about how faded she was, then I go straight "Direct method". I roll off the friend and go up to HBExotic and say "what’s up" she says hi back, I say "so check it out, I don’t like playing games so I'm going to get straight to the point" she says "I don't like playing games either” I say "I think you’re attractive and I'd like to get to know you." She says, "do you have a phone, I'll give you my number” get her number, we start small talking, I tell her I go to ASU Main, she goes to ASU west. I ask her what she does on Mondays because im free after class at 1, she says "I'm at ASU west but I don't mind driving to the main campus on Monday" WOW, IOI like crazy, she tells me to text her so my number is in her phone and pulled her right in front of my buddies.

See the hb8 Latina I pulled the 'guilt trip' on later with her boyfriend and she asks how my suit was working lol, I said "I got 2 numbers and the hottest girl in the club, I think it's working for me" lol, she introduces me to her bf, we small talk for a minute and I head out.

Bounced to IHOP later with Hbfreckles then went home. What a night.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just curious....were you still drunk when you wrote this? LOL


Regardless, good job with the FR man. Just curious though, what kind of IOI's did the Persian girl throw at you?

Anyways, let us know how it turns out for you. Post us on any followups with HBfreckles or HotPersian girl
 

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Yeah my bad, I fixed it so it looks a lot better.

I guess the iois from the persian were the fact that she said she would drive from ASU West to the Main campus to see me (that's a 30 minute drive), also the fact she told me to text her so that she could have my number too.

She had a confidence about her and at first glance she had a biitch shield up. I dont think indirect would have worked well on her, so I had to go direct on her. She didn't seem like she was all giddy and bouncy, she was just real chill. She would have seen through my indirect and probably would have blown me off.

It can only go so far (I have a gf) I mainly sarge for practice on my game, fun, and plus I have other buddies of mine always asking me for advice on what works and what doesnt. I talk good game but then I always get "well did that work for you?" so now I can tell them what works and what doesnt.
 

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Trendsetter said:
Yeah my bad, I fixed it so it looks a lot better.

I guess the iois from the persian were the fact that she said she would drive from ASU West to the Main campus to see me (that's a 30 minute drive), also the fact she told me to text her so that she could have my number too.

She had a confidence about her and at first glance she had a biitch shield up. I dont think indirect would have worked well on her, so I had to go direct on her. She didn't seem like she was all giddy and bouncy, she was just real chill. She would have seen through my indirect and probably would have blown me off.

It can only go so far (I have a gf) I mainly sarge for practice on my game, fun, and plus I have other buddies of mine always asking me for advice on what works and what doesnt. I talk good game but then I always get "well did that work for you?" so now I can tell them what works and what doesnt.
Sry bro...

There is a 95% chance that she is gonna flake on you because from what I read you didn't comfort her enough and should have talked to her more.

Also, numbers don't mean sh!t and she can say a lot...

I hope she won't flake on you though.

Keep us updated!
 

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Sry bro...

There is a 95% chance that she is gonna flake on you because from what I read you didn't comfort her enough and should have talked to her more.

Also, numbers don't mean sh!t and she can say a lot...

I hope she won't flake on you though.

Keep us updated!
There are plenty of ways to get a day 2, you don't always need comfort.

Most naturals will forget about building comfort, and work on hooking HARD.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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