"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: Daygame in NYC - damn

Rocky_Wayne

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Everyday there is something new to learn. Today was pretty dead, did not see many targets, and non of my approaches really hooked. I did learn a few things from some of the approaches i did.

1. Girl standing by bus stop: I ask "does this bus go to brooklyn?" She said she doesnt know and that she's hasnt been in nyc for that long. I say "yea i notice you have an australian accent" she tells me shes from Japan. I say konichiwa as i tap her arm and left. I shouldnt have. But this was my first set so I was not very warmed up.There are a dozen ways I could've transitioned. So im still kicking myself over this one. Oh well

2. HB7 by steps of grand central. I ask her if she knows wheres Starbucks, she says it might be downstairs but not sure. I tell her shes must not be from around here. She says no. I didnt feel interest from her so i bounced. I only stay when girls respond with more than 1 word answers. I have to find a way to make longer convo with girls who seem to be on the fence.

Im focusing on approaching sets that I feel very uncomfortable with, such as walking sets and seated 2 sets, just to get myself more comfortable with discomfort.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dhoulmagus

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New York City is a very fast paced city. Small talk is not really favored upon up there. I remember my friend asked somebody where a starbucks was and a the guy told him to use google maps on his phone.
 

skinnyguy

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I find NYC extremely difficult to pick up in.

People say "oh there's so many more women there" but the truth is that no one really flirts in the city and you need to know people in order to have any kind of chance with women.

Women out there are looking for alphas with 7 figure bank accounts. I prefer the South where you can just be an average guy and the women will like you cause they think you're funny.
 

Greasy Pig

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And how the fvck did you confuse a Japanese chick with an Australian one?????
 
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