Rocky_Wayne
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 4, 2014
- Messages
- 37
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Today was a great day for game. Lots of women out and nice weather. I open a ton of sets but nothing was sticking. My main focus today was approaching moving sets and escalating from open to conversation with every set, even those that are walking away. For me walking sets are tough to hook, so i was expecting to do a lot of approaches that wouldnt hook.
#close - I opened a hot asian girl at the park sitting with her laptop. As soon as I started walking up to her she started packing up to leave so the fact that she was leaving cut the convo short. Click this link if you want to listen to the first half of the convo up to the numnber close. You get to hear me ask for her number. The other half got cut off because i was using my phone as the voice recorder and i had to take it out to number close her. In retrospect, I could've kept recording while dialing her number, but this is the first time i ever record myself. Either way, the first half is the most important part, this is basically what i say to every girl. You can tell that what i say is pretty simple and uninteresting, the most important part is the vibe I give and the kino.
This is what I would call a YES girl. Meaning a girl that takes little convincing to close because I already fit her archetype and/or shes in the mood to meet somebody. This is why this close was so easy. Nevertheless, even with YES girls it is easy to fail. I think what made this work so well is the fact that I was not expecting anything out of this interaction. It was pretty much another set which I felt uncomfortable to approach so I had to open her. My motto when I'm out is "if it feels uncomfortable to approach then you must approach". There are still many circumstances which are totally out of my reality to approach such as girls with guys, on the phone, or in stores. I must work on those eventually.
There are many things I could've done better in this approach, specifically making the interaction last longer to minimize the chances of flaking.
I think the biggest lesson i learned today is that its better to save yourself some energy and have no expectations at all, neither good nor bad, from any approach.
#close - I opened a hot asian girl at the park sitting with her laptop. As soon as I started walking up to her she started packing up to leave so the fact that she was leaving cut the convo short. Click this link if you want to listen to the first half of the convo up to the numnber close. You get to hear me ask for her number. The other half got cut off because i was using my phone as the voice recorder and i had to take it out to number close her. In retrospect, I could've kept recording while dialing her number, but this is the first time i ever record myself. Either way, the first half is the most important part, this is basically what i say to every girl. You can tell that what i say is pretty simple and uninteresting, the most important part is the vibe I give and the kino.
This is what I would call a YES girl. Meaning a girl that takes little convincing to close because I already fit her archetype and/or shes in the mood to meet somebody. This is why this close was so easy. Nevertheless, even with YES girls it is easy to fail. I think what made this work so well is the fact that I was not expecting anything out of this interaction. It was pretty much another set which I felt uncomfortable to approach so I had to open her. My motto when I'm out is "if it feels uncomfortable to approach then you must approach". There are still many circumstances which are totally out of my reality to approach such as girls with guys, on the phone, or in stores. I must work on those eventually.
There are many things I could've done better in this approach, specifically making the interaction last longer to minimize the chances of flaking.
I think the biggest lesson i learned today is that its better to save yourself some energy and have no expectations at all, neither good nor bad, from any approach.
