"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, I'll start with some back story. About two and a half weeks ago, I went to an outdoor concert with a bunch of friends. We met some of my friend's friends there and decided to stay with them. There was a girl that I didn't know and, since she was cute, I thought I'd game her. I wasn't really into gaming her since I was more excited about the concert. This actually created a really good natural push-pull. Long story short, she ended up being really into at the end of the day. She had a really positive vibe towards me at the end of the day. (I didn't bother with a number close since I was sure that we'd end up seeing each other again.

The next time we met up about 5 days later, we were with a bunch of friends again. This time I created a Push-Pull on purpose and kept her IL high. She also brought a friend with her this time. her friend was very flirty with me. I flirted back but thought nothing of it 'cause I was interested in the original girl.

Jump to a couple days ago. I was on facebook at like 2 in the morning when the girl's friend started talking to me. We ended up talking for like 2 hours. Again she flirted and again I did back.

Fast Forward to today. Today we had a movie night at my friends house planned. The girl was there. So was her friend. For the first movie, I had stuck myself between two friends without thinking so I couldn't really do much. We took a break after the first movie and played some rock band. The friend and I flirted together while playing. During the second movie, I was beside the friend. One of my friends had gotten a bunch of blankets. I was sharing with the friend. I had recalled a post here a while back about someone using a blanket in a club to get some hardcore kino going. Inspired by the story, I initiated kino. Light stuff at first, then I started to take it up a notch. She had no objections.

I created a lot of sexual tension by moving in a pulling back. By the end of it, it started to get pretty hot. I could tell she was hardcore into me. My hand got dangerously close to her package near the end. She pulled my hand back a bit- A last defense thing. We held hands a bit. Then I started with the heavy kino again. I ended up getting within about an inch of it, but the movie ended so I had to stop lol. Not to mention I didn't know her very well so I wasn't sure I wanted to go there. This whole thing basically just created an insane amount of sexual tension.

Alright, so, why am I posting this besides promoting blankets as a valuable DJ weapon? Well, here's the thing. The girl and her friend are very close. I made the girl have a high IL towards me. And now, I've made her friend have one too (her's is probably much higher with the sexual tension).

Now here's the problem, If I pick either one of the girls, the other will loose. I realized that what I did isn't fair to them. Now a few years back, I had two friends- two friends who were close to each other. A girl got between them and they haven't talked since. I don't want to do that to these girls.

As far as I see, I have three options:

1) Pick one of the girls and hope for the best.

2) Don't pick any girl and game other chicks.

3) Wait it out and see what they do.

Three seems to be the obvious choice, but if they both go for me, I will have to make a choice. So I'd need to decide on either 1 or 2. Either way, I'm pretty sure I shouldn't actively game either of them for now. I'm going to give it a bit of time to cool off.

You thoughts, opinions?
 

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No one? Come on.

bump.
 

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Dude just go for the girl you want. Why are you waiting? Get your favorite girl's number and just do it. Stop thinking about it so much.

Look you can't save everyone from getting their feelings hurt. But I can tell you right now if you don't get a number and set up a date soon you're going to end up in both of their friend-zones.
 

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Alright. I just have one last question. The two girls are really close friends. What do you guys think would happen if I were to pull away from the girl I was doing the heavy kino with and make a move on the original girl? I like the original girl more. I literally have no experience in a situation like this so anything advice you guys could offer from personal experience would really help.
 
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