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Pre-Notes...
- The Indent feature sucks.
- This happened by accident.
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I've said it before, make every outing with a girl a date. No matter how little or lame of a outing, it's a date.
I've been hanging out with my ex and her best girl--friend a lot, just to pass the time, and have a bit of fun. It also allows me to constantly align myself to a girl's way of interaction, and I've been testing various types of mental games such as 20 Questions and Truth and Dare. Also to test are various types of states for myself, from flirty, carefree, serious, mad, sad, happy, etc. I've been just pretty well studying how my ex and her friend react, and I found out the following.
- The guy has to lead a lot of the flirting and teasing. This of course, depends on the girl. Studying how it all went, I had to spark a lot of the intial flirting and teasing. The best way to keep it running, is by conversational topic. I purposely ran it into guys for her. I picked up a two-set of guys for each of them and got the number (booyah!). Of course, my ex can't call a guy if her life depended on it, so of course, it's a perfect topic of teasing. I think that teasing something
'close' to her, such as a guy she really likes, or how she's a blonde-thinking type, or (since she's into LOTR, Harry Potter... -_-), I start picking shots at that little disgusting creature. Creates a great reaction.
- 20 Questions is awesome. We're playing pool during everything, so we're not bored. The questions start simple...and quickly turn into what we think, like and did with opposite sex members...excellent.
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- Creating drama. This is more in tune with last night, and it was accidental again, but I was sucking at this one game, and I guess I wasn't really paying attention to the game, so they started thinking that something's wrong. Of course, as all girls think, they want to know what's up. Of course, I don't know what's up, so I'm playing the nothing card. They call bs and keep pestering as we're still playing. So...as this continues, my ex tries to do the 'let's lean on the table so I can see down her shirt' move. Nadda, I didn't flinch (but I certainly noticed). Also got the poking, tickling, the stolen hat, the grabbing stick and telling me she'll shove it up my ass if I don't spill the beans (ohh, she's so nice
), and etc.
So, this is working out pretty damn good. Next point is the same.
- The mood of the date depends on YOU. Because I wasn't spilling beans, they got pretty quiet, or pretty well a big downshift in the date's mood. I let it run because I knew damn well nothing was wrong, and because I knew they were both thinking what was up, whether it was something between me and them, or someone else, or a different girl they don't know, or that I was loosing pool sometimes, or what. Beautiful.
Dropped the ex off (quick hug, buhbye), and focus was now on her best friend.
Me: "I guess I got to take you home too"
Her: "Well, we don't have to if you don't want to, I don't have a curfew or anything."
Translation: Still interested in hanging with you tonight
Me: "Ohh, alright. You.....like coffee? [no], Tea [no], Hot chocolate.."
Her: "Yeah....depends where its from."
Me: "Seattle?"
Her: "Sure"
So, quick thinking leads to more date.
[fluff]
So on the way there, I ask her what's up, and she tells me a lot between family, guys and history....we get there and I order in the hot chocolate and latte, and the couch is free, so we sit down and keep talking. Conversation lead into how I was really hoping to date her when I got back, but idiot friend screwed it up....and she was like, Yeah, it was cool and all. I told her what was up with me (and smartly, I devised a problem to cover up earlier), so my problem was that I was leaving soon, I've been pissed off at my past stupid relationships, I'm in between three girls at the moment (and told her she and my ex were two of them), and other crap. And she was 'whoa, you got lots going on'.
Then somehow, we got into the subject of attractiveness and how we both got tummies....and I said hers was fine and lied down on it, and kept talking to her. I'm adorable like that, lol.
[/fluff]
Place closed at 12, so we sat in the car, in the middle of a parking lot, idling for a hour and kept talking. Past relationships, and stuff...but the main thing started when she mentioned that she had trust issues. Won't go into specifics, but I did the 'do you trust me' question, and she said she did, so I told her to take my hand and we kept talking, and I brought up our closeness before I came back and how 'Damn! I wanted to date you!'. She laughs.
I noticed she carried a smile the whole time, and this was deep down conversation, so the signs of trust were there. She's also holding my hand and we're just talking.
Anyways, it gets time to bring her home, so I drive the 5 minutes there (Still talking), and we get outside her house, and we sit there for a bit just finishing up talking.
Me: "So, maybe I could be the first guy into trusting more guys"
Her: "Yeah maybe"
Me: "Well, want to give us a shot?"
Her: "Well.....let me think about it......yeah"
Me: *laughs* "Alright then!"
Done.
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So, how'd it end this way?
- Accidents, such as 'the problem', 'the extended date' and 'trust'
- I knew we liked each other.
- I knew it'd be a pain in the ass, hence the required fluffing.
- Once she said trust issues, and how she didn't trust guys for dating, I knew I hit gold. All I had to do was present myself as a trustable person, and ding.
And..that's about it really.
Is it spectacular? Not by any chance.
Did I mean for it to end this way, nope, I was just out for the night, wanted to end it by dropping them both off and home....but accidents....
Why so much fluff, it just happened, I still wasn't expecting (or trying) to crack the LJBF.
And why do I hang out with my ex so much. Because I'm still learning the female interaction deal. I just hit bonus with her friend. Nothing like sweet talking
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Comments welcome, I feel so noob for how it all happened, and how it's so unlike me to "talk about problems" with a girl, LOL. But heck, I guess I hit the right note.:rockon:
- The Indent feature sucks.
- This happened by accident.
---------
I've said it before, make every outing with a girl a date. No matter how little or lame of a outing, it's a date.
I've been hanging out with my ex and her best girl--friend a lot, just to pass the time, and have a bit of fun. It also allows me to constantly align myself to a girl's way of interaction, and I've been testing various types of mental games such as 20 Questions and Truth and Dare. Also to test are various types of states for myself, from flirty, carefree, serious, mad, sad, happy, etc. I've been just pretty well studying how my ex and her friend react, and I found out the following.
- The guy has to lead a lot of the flirting and teasing. This of course, depends on the girl. Studying how it all went, I had to spark a lot of the intial flirting and teasing. The best way to keep it running, is by conversational topic. I purposely ran it into guys for her. I picked up a two-set of guys for each of them and got the number (booyah!). Of course, my ex can't call a guy if her life depended on it, so of course, it's a perfect topic of teasing. I think that teasing something
'close' to her, such as a guy she really likes, or how she's a blonde-thinking type, or (since she's into LOTR, Harry Potter... -_-), I start picking shots at that little disgusting creature. Creates a great reaction.
- 20 Questions is awesome. We're playing pool during everything, so we're not bored. The questions start simple...and quickly turn into what we think, like and did with opposite sex members...excellent.
-----
- Creating drama. This is more in tune with last night, and it was accidental again, but I was sucking at this one game, and I guess I wasn't really paying attention to the game, so they started thinking that something's wrong. Of course, as all girls think, they want to know what's up. Of course, I don't know what's up, so I'm playing the nothing card. They call bs and keep pestering as we're still playing. So...as this continues, my ex tries to do the 'let's lean on the table so I can see down her shirt' move. Nadda, I didn't flinch (but I certainly noticed). Also got the poking, tickling, the stolen hat, the grabbing stick and telling me she'll shove it up my ass if I don't spill the beans (ohh, she's so nice
), and etc.So, this is working out pretty damn good. Next point is the same.
- The mood of the date depends on YOU. Because I wasn't spilling beans, they got pretty quiet, or pretty well a big downshift in the date's mood. I let it run because I knew damn well nothing was wrong, and because I knew they were both thinking what was up, whether it was something between me and them, or someone else, or a different girl they don't know, or that I was loosing pool sometimes, or what. Beautiful.
Dropped the ex off (quick hug, buhbye), and focus was now on her best friend.
So, here's where accidents mount up. I was just expecting to close the date off. First, I said.
Me: "I guess I got to take you home too"
Her: "Well, we don't have to if you don't want to, I don't have a curfew or anything."
Translation: Still interested in hanging with you tonight
Me: "Ohh, alright. You.....like coffee? [no], Tea [no], Hot chocolate.."
Her: "Yeah....depends where its from."
Me: "Seattle?"
Her: "Sure"
So, quick thinking leads to more date.
[fluff]
So on the way there, I ask her what's up, and she tells me a lot between family, guys and history....we get there and I order in the hot chocolate and latte, and the couch is free, so we sit down and keep talking. Conversation lead into how I was really hoping to date her when I got back, but idiot friend screwed it up....and she was like, Yeah, it was cool and all. I told her what was up with me (and smartly, I devised a problem to cover up earlier), so my problem was that I was leaving soon, I've been pissed off at my past stupid relationships, I'm in between three girls at the moment (and told her she and my ex were two of them), and other crap. And she was 'whoa, you got lots going on'.
Then somehow, we got into the subject of attractiveness and how we both got tummies....and I said hers was fine and lied down on it, and kept talking to her. I'm adorable like that, lol.
[/fluff]
Place closed at 12, so we sat in the car, in the middle of a parking lot, idling for a hour and kept talking. Past relationships, and stuff...but the main thing started when she mentioned that she had trust issues. Won't go into specifics, but I did the 'do you trust me' question, and she said she did, so I told her to take my hand and we kept talking, and I brought up our closeness before I came back and how 'Damn! I wanted to date you!'. She laughs.
I noticed she carried a smile the whole time, and this was deep down conversation, so the signs of trust were there. She's also holding my hand and we're just talking.
Anyways, it gets time to bring her home, so I drive the 5 minutes there (Still talking), and we get outside her house, and we sit there for a bit just finishing up talking.
Me: "So, maybe I could be the first guy into trusting more guys"
Her: "Yeah maybe"
Me: "Well, want to give us a shot?"
Her: "Well.....let me think about it......yeah"
Me: *laughs* "Alright then!"
Done.
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So, how'd it end this way?
- Accidents, such as 'the problem', 'the extended date' and 'trust'
- I knew we liked each other.
- I knew it'd be a pain in the ass, hence the required fluffing.
- Once she said trust issues, and how she didn't trust guys for dating, I knew I hit gold. All I had to do was present myself as a trustable person, and ding.
And..that's about it really.
Is it spectacular? Not by any chance.
Did I mean for it to end this way, nope, I was just out for the night, wanted to end it by dropping them both off and home....but accidents....
Why so much fluff, it just happened, I still wasn't expecting (or trying) to crack the LJBF.
And why do I hang out with my ex so much. Because I'm still learning the female interaction deal. I just hit bonus with her friend. Nothing like sweet talking
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Comments welcome, I feel so noob for how it all happened, and how it's so unlike me to "talk about problems" with a girl, LOL. But heck, I guess I hit the right note.:rockon: